Sonia Todd of Moscow, Idaho, died of cancer at the young age of 38. But knowing the end was near, she decided to write her own obituary before passing away. As she explained, obituaries were usually written a couple of different ways that she simply didn’t care for. So, as one of her last acts on this earth, she put pen to paper and decided for herself how her obituary would read.
The result of Sonia confronting her own mortality as she penned her obituary was a piece full of humor as well as wisdom, appearing in the Moscow-Pullman Daily News. The words were so honest and inspirational that long after her death, they will still ring true, giving others something to aspire to. Ironically, Sonia wrote, “I never really accomplished anything of note.” How wrong she was. The truth expressed in the obituary she wrote proved to be quite an accomplishment in and of itself.
“Other than giving birth to my two wonderful, lovable, witty and amazing sons (James and Jason), marrying my gracious, understanding and precious husband (Brian), and accepting the Lord Jesus Christ as my personal savior – I have done very little. None of which requires obit space that I have to shell out money for,” Sonia Todd began, explaining why she was writing her obituary and why it wouldn’t be like others.
Adding that she didn’t want a bunch of her loved ones sitting around to write a glowing report of her, which she says would be “filled with fish tales, half-truths, impossible scenarios, and out-right-honest-to-goodness-lies,” Sonia explained she simply didn’t like putting people in those kinds of situations. With the explanation out of the way, she got to her version of the truth about her own life.
“I just tried to do the best I could. Sometimes I succeeded, most of the time I failed, but I tried. For all of my crazy comments, jokes and complaints, I really did love people. The only thing that separates me from anyone else is the type of sin each of us participated in. I didn’t always do the right thing or say the right thing and when you come to the end of your life those are the things you really regret, the small simple things that hurt other people,” Sonia admitted.
Although she said that she mostly enjoyed life, she also said it wasn’t perfect and that she encountered many bumps in the road, especially in her teens and early 20s. Even though some parts of her life were harder than others, Sonia said, “I learned something from every bad situation and I couldn’t do any more than that.” She also claimed there were benefits to dying young. Jokingly, she wrote, “I still owe on my student loans and the jokes on them cuz I’m not paying them. Plus, I am no longer afraid of serial killers, telemarketers or the IRS.”Addressing the fact that some people have told her that writing her own obituary is morbid, Sonia Todd continued, “I think it is great because I get a chance to say thank you to all the people who helped me along the way. Those who loved me, assisted me, cared for me, laughed with me and taught me things so that I could have a wonderful, happy life. I was blessed beyond measure by knowing all of you. That is what made my life worthwhile.”
It was the conclusion of her obituary that was the most important, however. Sonia encouraged others to change their lives. “If you think of me, and would like to do something in honor of my memory do this: Volunteer at a school, church or library. Write a letter to someone and tell them how they have had a positive effect on your life. If you smoke – quit. If you drink and drive – stop,” she wrote.
Her advise continued, “Turn off the electronics and take a kid out for ice cream and talk to them about their hopes and dreams. Forgive someone who doesn’t deserve it. Stop at all lemonade-stands run by kids and brag about their product. Make someone smile today if it is in your power to do so.”
Today seems like a good day to honor Sonia’s memory by completing some of these simple requests and reminding others to do the same. Luckily for us, we still have time for these things. And, thankfully, with her dying wish, Sonia Todd left us these words of wisdom that few realize until it’s too late
The Shocking Truth About Bruce Lee’s Death Revealed By Chuck Norris
Bruce Lee, the most famous martial artist of all time, has fascinated and inspired millions of people around the world. However, his sudden and mysterious death left everyone in shock and raised many unanswered questions. Finally, after years of silence, Chuck Norris, another martial arts legend, has come forward to unveil the shocking truth behind the tragic deaths of Bruce Lee and his son, Brandon Lee.
Before we delve into the truth, let’s briefly explore the remarkable friendship between Bruce Lee and Chuck Norris. By the late 1960s, both men had already established themselves as prominent figures in martial arts. Bruce was wowing audiences with his incredible moves in Hong Kong movies like “The Big Boss” and “Fist of Fury,” while Chuck was dominating championships in the United States.
Their paths crossed at a karate championship in 1967, where Chuck emerged victorious, and Bruce showcased his outstanding martial arts skills. Instantly impressed by each other, they formed a bond and began training together. Bruce learned powerful kicking techniques from Chuck, while Chuck admired Bruce’s lightning-fast style.
Their friendship led to a collaboration in the iconic film “Way of the Dragon” in 1972, which received widespread acclaim. Not only did the movie highlight their exceptional skills, but it also solidified their places as legends of martial arts.
Tragedy struck the martial arts world when Bruce Lee passed away unexpectedly in 1973. His untimely death left Chuck devastated, and he expressed his grief in numerous interviews. Moreover, Chuck remained closely connected with Bruce’s family, particularly his son, Brandon Lee.
Unfortunately, the Lee family was struck by tragedy once again when Brandon lost his life in a freak accident on a movie set. The devastating news shook the martial arts community and left everyone mourning the loss of this talented young actor.
Now, after years of contemplation and reflection, Chuck Norris has decided to share his perspective on what really happened to Bruce Lee. In a candid and revealing video, Chuck sheds light on the mysteries surrounding Bruce’s tragic demise and the subsequent loss of Brandon.
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