Cher’s journey from the unknown to establishing her distinct place as a multitalented icon is nothing short of exciting. In addition to redefining music and ruling the world of music for nearly six decades, she has challenged the norms and expectations, building a persona unlike any other.
From being fun and full of surprises to exuberating boldness and brilliance—Cher’s journey to success has been both unconventional and exceptional. Moreover, she has used fashion as a form of self-expression, unapologetically conveying her somewhat complex personal style.
Despite her age, the “After All” singer’s revealing style has remained unchanged. Her choice of seemingly inappropriate outfits has kept her in the spotlight for years. At the 2017 Billboard Music Awards, she rocked a body-baring, heart-shaped pasties outfit made from beaded threads.
Cher topped her look with a platinum wig, looking snug and happy in her bold beaded dress. Interestingly, everyone adored her style, and she also bagged the Icon Award, which later gave her a chance to share an emotional acceptance speech.
While reflecting on her journey in the music arena for over 50 years at the time, Cher echoed what her mom told her when she was a young girl:
“You’re not going to be the smartest, you’re not going to be the prettiest, you’re not going to be the most talented, but you’re going to be special.’”
Taking the conversation further, the “If I Could Turn Back Time” star noted how her style statement throughout her career had been unique, despite being dubbed outrageous, distinct, and against the rule books.
To anyone wondering how she pulled off such a revealing dress for her age, the then-71-year-old responded, “I can do a five-minute plank.”
Despite going strong in her 70s, Cher has received immense criticism for her looks. In 2019, a user called the songstress “too old to dress like a [20-year-old].”
In 2014, a second user slammed her for looking ugly in her purple dress, saying she needed to wear something longer. “Cher looks like an ugly Ozzy,” commented another user.
She has reportedly been dubbed as the poster girl for cosmetic procedures.
Besides being criticized, the “Moonstruck” alum has also received supportive comments from fans. “THIS is cher! she looks her age, beautiful and happy. there’s nothing wrong with looking like you’ve lived [sic],” stated one user on Twitter.
When Cher posted her mother’s picture on social media in June 2022, many drew similarities between the two women. She is beautiful. She is beautiful at her age now!” wrote a fan. Another netizen commended the pop star, adding, “Looks beautiful for any age and she is already doing her job fabulously.”
For Cher, the world of glitz and glam has also pressured her to remain young and relevant in her field. She has reportedly been dubbed as the poster girl for cosmetic procedures.
When asked if she normalized the trend, the singer immediately pointed out how she had seen girls as young as 18 want to change their appearance. She said she didn’t comprehend why people held her responsible for something which had been trending for a long time.
“If you’re no good at what you do, people don’t care what you look like,” answered Cher when asked if cosmetic treatments had prolonged her career. She noted how people didn’t pay money to look at someone and attached much more importance to someone’s performance.
Despite admitting to feeling exhausted and drained, the “Burlesque” alum said her voice had never been better. She also stated how she had worked diligently to build her body strength, adding that even 20-year-old girls couldn’t do what she did.
While commenting on an American tabloid newspaper constantly suggesting she was on the brink of death, Cher appeared shocked and confused. During her response to the somewhat queer question, she said she was unsure why they thought she was dying when she had never felt that way.
Cher is also excellent at monitoring her diet and is a fan of healthy eating except for her love for chocolate. She also credits working out and exercising to her gorgeous appearance and agelessness.
So, how does the “All or Nothing” singer maintain her lovely figure while adding more years to her life? She once shared how she works twice as hard and loves being in the gym as much as possible. Cher said she was a tomboy in her youth and loved playing sports.
Owing to her sporty attitude, Cher also learned to surf and said she loved embarking on adventures. The Oscar-winning diva has a few simple beauty tips which have helped her remain an elegant beauty over the years.
Her secrets to staying fit, active, healthy, and of course, ageless include saying no to drinking, smoking, and drugs. In addition to understanding the importance of mindful eating and adopting a vegetarian diet, Cher confessed she rarely drank and never did drugs.
Cher once rated Cruise among her top five lovers, and the duo’s relationship amassed immense popularity back in the day, despite the “Jerry Maguire” actor being 16 years her junior.
The “Baby Don’t Go” star explained how she had always considered drinking and drugs unhealthy. While she admitted to smoking cigarettes for some time, she quickly bounced back and steered clear of anything that contradicted her taste.
Being the superstar she is, Cher’s health continues to worry her fans from time to time, mainly in the wake of her advancing age. In 2021, she had to cancel some of her concerts after contracting a mysterious illness.
Heeding her doctor’s advice, Cher, then 75, took some time to rest and recover and kept her loyal fan base updated about her health through regular social media updates.
Known for entertaining the audience, staying relevant, and serving style goals despite her age, the Emmy-winning star was shattered to cancel some of her shows. During her “Dressed To Kill” tour, she was said to have fallen ill with a severe virus affecting her kidneys and voice box.
At the time, Cher had to cancel her mega show’s second half because she appeared too unwell to perform. However, despite her health scares, she has managed to stay fit and healthy, determined to keep her fans entertained with her mesmerizing performances.
Cher’s age has never deterred her from chasing her dreams. In addition to reveling in continued success and fame, she had had an exciting love life. In November 2022, the “Love and Understanding” singer went public with her relationship to Alexander “AE” Edwards, 40 years her junior.
When photos of the hot duo circulated on social media, many fans warned Cher about her then-boyfriend’s past. But sources reported that the Grammy-winning musician was unswayed by the online chatter, and she couldn’t care less about the skepticism surrounding her relationship.
Despite the undue media and public scrutiny, Cher seemed to enjoy the attention, reportedly adding that she and her then-beau shared something extraordinary, making her feel sexy and full of life.
The same source shared that Cher had always had a thing for younger men, and her relationship with Edwards was no different than her previous connections. But what made it stand out from the “Bang Bang” star’s prior romances was how it made her feel and her confidence to take it public.
In December 2022, Cher posted a picture of her pear-shaped diamond ring on Twitter, triggering the romance rumor mill. The “Mamma Mia! Here We Go Again” alum wrote how she wished her late mom, Georgia Holt, could witness her happiness and gorgeous ring.
She mentioned how her mother loved diamonds and would have been ecstatic to share her daughter’s happiness. Later, Cher said she had posted the ring’s photo because she wished to flaunt her then-boyfriend’s fabulous nails.
The pop star’s romance with Edwards isn’t the only one that gained widespread media attention. In the past, she’s dated Hollywood A-listers, including Richie Sambora, Elvis Presley, Tom Cruise, and several others.
Cher once rated Cruise among her top five lovers, and the duo’s relationship amassed immense popularity back in the day, despite the “Jerry Maguire” actor being 16 years her junior.
She has been married twice: she wed Sonny Bono in 1964, and they divorced in 1975. They share a son, Chaz Bono. Unfortunately, Sonny died in 1998. Later, in 1975, she tied the knot with Gregg Allman, but the duo divorced three years later. Allman passed away in 2017, and the duo share a son, Elijah.
Despite the rumors that Cher and Edwards were engaged, sources close to the couple confirmed that they had gone their separate ways after just six months of dating. It was also revealed that the pair were never engaged, and Cher’s ring was merely a gift from her ex-lover.
Regardless, the duo was said to be incredibly close, and Edwards’ son loved spending time at Cher’s Malibu residence. Their romance and brief relationship were believed to be real and special, and despite their decision to call it quits, they were said to be on friendly terms.
Although Cher has been slammed off and on for her revealing style, she continues to exuberate class and confidence while showing off her slim figure, proving that age is just a number!
My Granddaughter Kicked Me Out of the Apartment I Gifted Her — So I Gave Her a Reality Check
My granddaughter Emily kicked me out of my apartment, claiming it was hers. Little did she know, her “perfect” fiancé, Tom, had a dark secret that would turn our lives upside down and teach us both a hard lesson about trust and family.
It’s been a tough journey since my son and his wife died in that terrible car crash six years ago. I’ve raised my granddaughter, Emily, since she was 16. Wasn’t a walk in the park, but we managed.
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Last Tuesday, Emily burst into our apartment, beaming. “Grandma! Guess what?”
I looked up from my crossword puzzle. “What’s got you so excited?”
“I’m engaged!” She thrust her hand out, showing off a flashy ring.
I felt my stomach drop. “Engaged? To whom?”
“Tom! We’ve been dating for two months. He’s perfect!”
I set my pen down. “Two months? That’s awfully fast, don’t you think?”
Emily’s smile faded. “Why can’t you just be happy for me?”
“I’m just concerned. What about your studies?”
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She waved her hand dismissively. “College isn’t for me. I’m dropping out.”
“Emily, you can’t be serious. Education is crucial.”
“For what? I’m gonna be married. Tom will take care of me.”
I frowned. “And if something happens? If he leaves?”
“He won’t,” she snapped. “Why are you being so negative?”
I sighed. “I’m just looking out for you, dear.”
“Well, don’t. Oh, and by the way, I need you to move out.”
I blinked, sure I’d misheard. “Move out? Of where?”
“This apartment. It’s mine now.”
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“Emily, I said you’d inherit it after I pass away.”
She shrugged. “Same difference. I need it now.”
I couldn’t believe what I was hearing. “Where am I supposed to go?”
“Not my problem,” she said, checking her phone.
“Emily, this is ridiculous! You can’t just kick me out!”
She barely looked up from her ever-present phone. “Watch me. I want you gone by tomorrow.”
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I tried reasoning with her, but it was like talking to a brick wall. That night, I barely slept, my mind churning with worry and disbelief.
The next day, Emily literally shoved me out the door. “Time’s up, Grandma. Tom’s moving in tonight.”
Standing in the hallway with a hastily packed bag, I pleaded, ‘Emily, please. Let’s talk about this.’
She rolled her eyes and dismissed me with a curt, “There’s nothing to talk about. Bye.” Then the door slammed shut in my face.
I spent the night in the hallway, still in shock. How could my own granddaughter do this?
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In the morning, I went to the store and bought a new outfit so I could make myself presentable to see a lawyer. We filed a lawsuit to reclaim my apartment, but I had something else in mind to teach Emily a lesson.
I called my sister, Beatrice, who lived in another town. “Bea? It’s Evelyn. I need a favor.”
“What’s wrong? You sound awful.”
I explained the situation, and Bea was livid. “That ungrateful little… Of course, you can stay here. Get yourself over here, and we’ll figure this out.”
After taking the bus to Bea’s and settling there, I rang up my colorful old friend Fiona. She runs a PI firm.
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“Fi, I need your expertise. Can you look into Emily’s fiancé?”
“Sure thing, Ev. What’s his name?”
“Tom. That’s all I know. But I’ve figured out how to find him on social media channels — my granddaughter taught this old dog some new tricks.”
“Text me whatever you have on him and give me a few days. I’ll see what I can dig up.”
“Okay, will do, Fi, thank you,” I replied.
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While Fiona investigated, I called the lawyer about my apartment and told him to hold fire on the lawsuit to reclaim it.
“It’s pretty clear-cut,” the lawyer said. “The apartment’s in your name. She has no legal right to it.”
“I just hope it doesn’t come to that. I want to talk sense into her first,” I replied.
Three days later, Fiona called back. “Ev, I’ve got bad news. This Tom character’s a real piece of work.”
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“How so?”
“He’s conned at least four wealthy women in the past three years. Left them broke and broken-hearted.”
My blood ran cold. “Are you certain?”
“Absolutely. I’ve got all the evidence right here.”
I thanked her and hung up. Poor Emily had no idea what she was walking into.
The wedding day arrived faster than I expected. I showed up at the venue with Fiona, clutching a folder of evidence.
Emily spotted me and stormed over. “What are you doing here?”
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“Trying to stop you from making a huge mistake.”
“You weren’t invited!” she hissed.
I held up the folder. “Emily, Tom’s not who you think he is. He’s after your money.”
Her face paled. “What are you talking about?”
“He’s done this before. Multiple times.”
Emily snatched the folder from my hands and started flipping through it, her hands trembling. “This… this can’t be right.”
Just then, Tom appeared, his face contorted in anger. “Baby, what’s going on?” he demanded.
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Emily spun around, her eyes flashing with hurt and anger. “Is this true? Are you just using me?” she demanded, her voice quivering with emotion.
Tom’s smile faltered, his facade cracking. “Of course not. Who told you that nonsense?” he asked, a hint of desperation creeping into his tone.
“It’s all here,” Emily said, her voice shaking as she thrust a document towards him. “Proof of what you’ve done.”
Tom’s eyes darted around the room, panic setting in. Without warning, he bolted for the exit, leaving stunned silence in his wake.
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Emily sank into a nearby chair, her body wracked with sobs. As guests started murmuring and filing out, I sat beside her, wrapping an arm around her trembling shoulders. “I’m so sorry, sweetie,” I whispered, feeling utterly helpless.
She looked up at me, mascara streaking down her face. “What do I do now?” I asked, my voice barely above a whisper.
“We’ll figure it out together,” I assured her, squeezing her hand gently.
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***
A few days after I returned to the apartment, Emily called in a panic from work. “Grandma, I’m in deep trouble! The bank just called. Tom maxed out my cards and took out loans in my name. I don’t know what to do. I owe so much.”
I took a deep breath. “You need to face this head-on. Get another job. Sell what you can.”
“But that’ll take forever!” she wailed.
“Sometimes that’s how it goes,” I said firmly. “When you come home this evening we’ll talk this over and figure it out.”
Emily nodded slowly. “You’re right. I’ve been terrible to you. I’m so, so sorry.”
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“I forgive you,” I said. “But it’s time to grow up.”
***
Over the next few months, Emily worked herself to the bone. She waited tables and worked retail. She also sold most of her possessions.
We settled back into our usual routine in the apartment. Emily kept working and even started taking some online classes.
“I never realized how hard it is to make money,” she said one day over dinner.
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I nodded. “It’s not easy, but it’s rewarding. You’re doing great, Emily.”
She smiled. “Thanks, Grandma. For everything.”
Six months after the wedding-that-wasn’t, we sat on the balcony sharing a pot of tea.
“Grandma?” Emily said. “I never properly thanked you. For everything.”
I patted her hand. “You’re welcome, dear. I’m proud of how you’ve handled things.”
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She smiled. “I couldn’t have done it without you. I was such a brat before.”
“You were,” I agreed. “But you’ve really turned things around.”
Emily nodded. “I have. And I swear, I’ll never take you for granted again.”
“I know you won’t,” I said. “You’ve learned a valuable lesson.”
“Several, actually,” Emily laughed. “Never trust a guy with a too-perfect smile, always read the fine print, and grandmas know best.”
I chuckled. “That about sums it up.”
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“Seriously, though,” Emily continued, “I can’t believe how blind I was. Tom seemed so perfect.”
“That’s often how con artists operate,” I explained. “They tell you exactly what you want to hear.”
Emily sighed. “I just feel so stupid.”
“Don’t,” I said firmly. “You’re not the first to fall for someone like that, and you won’t be the last. What matters is how you handle it afterward.”
She nodded. “I guess. It’s just… I had all these dreams, you know? A big wedding, a perfect life. Now I’m working two jobs and taking night classes.”
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“And you’re all the stronger for it,” I pointed out. “You’re building a real future now, not a fantasy.”
Emily smiled. “You’re right. It’s hard, but it feels good. Like I’m actually accomplishing something.”
“You are,” I assured her. “I’m so proud of you, Emily.”
As we watched the sun dip below the horizon, I felt a sense of peace come over me. We’d been through hell and back, but our bond was stronger than ever. Sometimes, tough love is exactly what’s needed.
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Emily leaned her head on my shoulder. “I love you, Grandma.”
“I love you too, sweetie,” I replied, wrapping an arm around her.
We sat there in comfortable silence, watching the stars come out. It wasn’t the future either of us had imagined, but it was ours, and we’d face it together.
What would you have done?
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