Some people dream, some don’t, or at least they don’t remember doing so.
But do dreams mean anything? Well, while people are convinced dreams are a form of messages received by forces we are unable to see or feel while wide awake, some scientists claim that dreams are simply a result of neuronal processes taking place within our brain.
While we are asleep, our brains are anything but.
Sometimes, dreams happen as a reflection of the day that passed, and other times they represent our fears. But what does it mean when we dream of a deceased person?
These dreams can be seen as part of the process of grieving or a transition that takes place in our own life. According to Healthline, it has to do with the latter.
These dreams are common when we experience certain changes, such as getting a new job, moving places, or meeting someone new.
What is most important than the dream itself, however, is how it make us feel.
Rubin Naiman, who has a Ph.D. in psychology, spent years of his life studying sleep patterns and habits. According to him, “Dream interpretation is about decoding the dream. It enlightens us and expands our awareness psychologically, [offering an] expansion of consciousness.”
So, dreaming of someone who is no longer alive may be related to the changes mentioned above and how those changes affect us.
”A lot of contemporary neuroscientists believe during REM sleep, the brain is involved in maintenance tasks, and it accidentally ‘kicks up dust,’ visually. At that end, dreaming is considered totally meaningless.” On the other hand he explains, “The other end is that dreaming is more substantial than waking. And we see this in ‘dream cultures,’ such as the indigenous people of Australia, who believe dreaming is intrinsic to our spiritual existence.”
Experts place these dreams into four categories.
- First, dreaming of a deceased person may be interpreted as the brain trying to work through the pain of the loss.
- If we hadn’t made amends with the deceased person before their passing, we may feel guilt and that might be the reason why they visit us in our dreams.
- According to Lauri Loewenberg, a dream analyst, we may be dreaming of a deceased person if we see some of their behaviors, such as substance abuse or else, in ourselves.
- There are experts who believe that these dreams represent a visitation from the deceased person, especially if we see them in a good condition in our dream, meaning they are well dressed or seem happy. If we feel good about the dream, it may mean that the deceased person says ‘Hello.’
No matter what we feel about dreams, the truth is that they offer something deep and meaningful. They often give us insight into the soul and our connection with the deceased person that we see in our dreams.
Only boys understand
Technology has become an inseparable part of our daily lives, but for boys, a computer isn’t just a tool—it’s a lifestyle. Whether it’s for work or entertainment, one thing remains constant: the computer setup stays the same, but the purpose changes dramatically. This subtle yet hilarious reality is something only boys truly understand.
The Dual Life of a Computer Setup
At first glance, a desk with a computer might seem like just another workspace. But for guys, the same setup serves two very different purposes:
- During Work Hours – The computer is a productivity powerhouse, running spreadsheets, emails, and video conferences.
- When Home Alone – That same machine transforms into a gaming station, movie theater, or a deep-dive research center for the most random internet searches.
It’s not just about using the computer—it’s about how the setup evolves depending on the situation.
Work Mode: The Serious Setup
When it’s time to work, everything feels structured and optimized for productivity.
- The mouse stays on the right side – Perfectly positioned for efficient clicking.
- Screens filled with work tabs – Spreadsheets, emails, and task lists dominate the display.
- Minimal distractions – Noise-canceling headphones on, focus mode activated.
- Professional posture – Sitting straight, keyboard at the perfect angle.
In this state, the computer is a workhorse, designed to tackle deadlines, meetings, and professional tasks.
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Home Alone Mode: The Ultimate Comfort Zone
As soon as work ends and no one’s around, everything shifts. The computer, once a tool for productivity, now becomes an all-in-one entertainment system.
- The mouse switches sides – Because now, everything happens at a relaxed pace.
- Tabs full of games, movies, and YouTube videos – Researching something serious? Maybe. But probably not.
- Relaxed posture – Leaning back, feet on the desk, one hand on the mouse, the other on snacks.
- Speakers blasting – No need for headphones, the room becomes a personal theater.
This transition happens almost instinctively. One moment, you’re handling work calls; the next, you’re watching an obscure documentary about ancient civilizations at 3 AM.
Why This Duality Exists
There’s a reason why guys naturally shift between these two modes:
- Work requires discipline – Efficiency is key, and distractions are minimized.
- Home is all about comfort – The brain switches gears to relaxation, and everything from posture to mouse position changes.
- Multitasking at its finest – Who says you can’t binge-watch a series while playing an online game?
The Unspoken Rules of the Setup
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Every guy who owns a computer setup follows an unspoken code:
- Never let anyone mess with your settings – Once the mouse sensitivity is perfect, it should never change.
- The workspace should remain untouched – Even if it looks messy, there’s a system in place.
- One screen is never enough – Work mode needs efficiency, and home mode needs immersion.
- Gaming peripherals double as work tools – A mechanical keyboard isn’t just for gaming—it makes typing emails more satisfying.
The Mouse Switching Phenomenon
Perhaps the funniest part of this reality is the simple act of switching the mouse’s position. When working, it stays on one side. When watching movies, leaning back, or casually browsing, it moves to the other.
This tiny, almost subconscious habit is something only guys truly understand.
Conclusion: The Secret Life of a Computer Setup
To the outside world, a computer is just a machine. But for guys, it’s a dynamic, ever-changing space that adapts to the moment. Work or play, the setup remains the same, but the experience transforms entirely.
So if you ever catch yourself switching the mouse’s position without thinking twice—congratulations. You’re officially part of the club that only boys understand.
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