Being a parent to a cocky, disrespectful teenager is far from easy, and different parents have different approaches to getting their children to behave.
One mom, Heidi Johnson, wrote a handwritten letter to her son, Aaron, and shared it on Facebook. She didn’t intend for the post to go viral. She didn’t even intend to make the post public. It was supposed to just be for friends to see, but she does not regret her post or the fact that it’s public.
In the letter to her 13-year-old son, Johnson reprimanded her son treating her like a “roommate.” She went on to give him an itemized bill for rent, food, etc that totaled over $700. If he was going to treat her like a roommate instead of his mom, she would do the same.
Johnson signed the note, “Love Mom,” and she truly does love her son. She followed up the post with another post explaining some backstory to the situation.
She also reassured parents who were criticizing her that “I am not going to put my 13 year old on the street if he can’t pay his half of the rent. I am not wanting him to pay anything.
I want him to take pride in his home, his space, and appreciate the gifts and blessings we have.”
She added that she never intended for Aaron to pay the bill. Instead, she wanted him to “gain an appreciation of what things cost.”
The reason Johnson wrote the note was to make sure her son understood “what life would look like if I was not his ‘parent,’ but rather a ‘roommate.’ It was a lesson about gratitude and respect from the very beginning.”
Johnson also explained that before she wrote the note, her son had lied about doing his homework, and when she told him she was going to restrict his internet access, he responded, “Well, I am making money now.”
She explained that the money he was referring to was a little bit of income he was making from his YouTube channel, but not nearly enough to pay for food and rent.
The public note has not hurt Johnson’s relationship with her son. She explained, “He and I still talk as openly as ever. He has apologized multiple times.”
Johnson has also had parents turning to her for advice since she posted the note to her son.
She explains, “My post seems to have opened a door, and people feel safe coming to me and asking for advice, venting, or even just have someone bear witness to their experience by listening and opening up and sharing a piece of myself in return.”
I Took a Photo for a Family of Strangers, and a Week Later, I Got a Message from Them That Made My Blood Run Cold
I took a photo of a happy family in the park, thinking nothing of it. A week later, I received a chilling message: “IF YOU ONLY KNEW WHAT YOU HAVE DONE TO OUR FAMILY.” My mind spiraled, questioning what I could have possibly triggered. Another message followed, and the truth shattered me in ways I never imagined.
That day had been ordinary. The sun was warm, kids laughed, and couples strolled hand in hand. I had been walking alone, still carrying the weight of my grief over Tom. Then I noticed the family on the bench, their happiness a painful reminder of the life I lost.
The father asked me to take their picture, and I obliged. Their smiles were perfect. The mother thanked me, exchanging numbers just in case. I left, not thinking much of it, but that brief moment would soon return to haunt me.
Days later, sitting on my patio, I received the first message. Panic set in as I wondered what I had done. Did I capture something I shouldn’t have? Was I responsible for some unseen tragedy? My mind raced with questions.
Then came the second message: “You took our picture on August 8th. My wife passed away yesterday, and that is the last photo we have as a family.”
The world stopped. The woman’s face, her warm smile, her love for her children—it was all gone, just like that. The guilt hit hard. I envied her happiness, and now it was forever lost. I wept for her, for the family, for myself. But in my grief, I realized that in taking their photo, I had given them a precious final memory.
It was a bittersweet reminder that even in dark times, we can create moments of light for others. And sometimes, those small acts can mean more than we ever know.
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