We all go through life knowing that someday we won’t be here forever. I’m not afraid of dying and see it as a natural part of life. But what does worry me is growing old and not being able to take care of myself. The idea of relying on a hospice nurse makes me a bit anxious.
The thought of needing help with everything, being unable to do simple things on my own, and forgetting my loved ones’ names scares me. It’s not the kind of life I’d want. This fear reminds me of Maria, a music teacher who was cared for by a hospice nurse in 2016.
One night, as I was leaving at the end of my shift, I said ‘Goodnight, Irene.’ Then I asked her if she knew the song ‘Goodnight, Irene,’ and I sang a little bit of it. She looked at me and smiled,” Berg said. “For someone who didn’t usually talk much with the nurses, that smile meant a lot, and I knew I had made a connection with her.”As Rosipajla’s health got worse, it was decided to move her from the hospital to hospice care. “The last time I took care of Irene, I wanted to do something kind for her and her family, so I brought my guitar,” said Berg, who had studied music in college. “I sang ‘Goodnight, Irene,’ and it was a really special moment. I was nervous about singing in front of someone, but when I started playing and singing, she was so focused, and her family was really touched.”
Michelle Naypauer, Irene Rosipajla’s daughter-in-law who saw her as a mother, was in the room and moved to tears. “Irene was a wonderful person who treated me like a daughter,” Naypauer said. “In the last few months, Irene was in and out of the hospital, and we got to know Annamarie well.”
“Before the song, Annamarie had already done some great things. Our middle son, Eric, got married in August, and Annamarie helped set up FaceTime so Mom could be at the reception bridal table. It was beautiful,” Naypauer shared.
Naypauer, who recorded Annamarie singing to Irene, wanted to capture the special moment to share with the family. “There were so many tears, and it was just so beautiful,” she said. The song was a heartfelt farewell to Irene, who passed away a few weeks later at home, surrounded by her family.
Watch Joshua sing to Maria while she was in his carehttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uGFRHyt1sFQ
1. “Maria is dying. Then carer takes something out of his pocket and fulfills her last wish..” Newsner. Norhan Elhakeem. October 26, 2017
2. “Nurse sings to patient moving to hospice care in touching moment.” ABC News. Haley Yamada. March 2, 2020.
Woman Called to School for Her Son’s Bad Behavior & Is Left Speechless upon Seeing Who His Teacher Is
Molly’s life had been difficult, and her primary concern was Tommy, her son. It was wearing him down to have to move towns and schools all the time. He started misbehaving, picking fights, and harassing other children. Molly never imagined that a phone call from the principal of the school would revive a portion of her past that she had assumed had faded away.
Tensions between her and her husband, Nigel, grew at home. Tommy was never acknowledged as Nigel’s kid; instead, he was frequently referred to as “your son.” One evening, he snapped, “Why can’t you get your son to behave?” Molly was greatly upset by Nigel’s rejection of Tommy, even after they had been together for years.
Molly attended a meeting at the school the following day to discuss Tommy’s disruptive behavior. She was shocked to see her ex-boyfriend Christian standing next to the principal. “I see myself in him,” Christian, who had long since broken up with Tommy, said as she glanced at him. I want to put things right because I committed a mistake.
Although Molly wasn’t sure how to react to his abrupt return, she was aware that something needed to shift. When Molly got home from another fight with Nigel that evening, she discovered him unconscious and holding a bottle of alcohol.
At last, Molly took a stand. “We’re going somewhere better, Tommy,” she said as she packed their suitcases and awakened him up. Somewhere our love will be felt.”
For the first time in years, Molly experienced hope as they walked out of the flat.
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