You could say Lorenzo Lamas was always destined to become an actor. His parents worked in the industry, and it didn’t take long before he entered it himself.
Lamas has starred in classics such as the television series Falcon Crest and the legendary film Grease. Still to this day, the California native is working as an actor – and at 65, he looks terrific!
However, Lamas’s life has had its ups and downs, and he’s gone through some rather tough times. Here’s all you need to know about Lorenzo and the many struggles he’s overcome.
One was getting over the fact that his son had an affair with his ex-wife.
Even as a young kid, Lorenzo Lamas’s stars had aligned where acting was concerned.
Born Lorenzo Fernando Lamas on January 20, 1958, in Santa Monica, California, he was raised by his mother Arlene Dahl, an American actress of Norwegian descent, and his father Fernando Lamas, an Argentinian who worked as an actor and director.
Lorenzo Lamas – early life
Lorenzo grew up in the fashionable area of Pacific Palisades, California. At age two, his parents divorced, and eight years later, he moved to New York with his father.
Lorenzo has often drawn upon the fact that his family comes from different parts of the world. He once starred as Dracula in a Halloween production of the famous Bram Stoker novel and had no problem at all adopting a different accent.
“I grew up with a man who had a voice like Dracula and every other bigger-than-life character you could ever think of in my father,” he told the New York Times in 2007. “I take a little bit from him to do the accent. I’ve also done four movies in Bulgaria.”
While Lorenzo was transitioning from a kid into a young man, his father had a pretty wild lifestyle. According to Lorenzo, his father had “been with every woman.” Yet as a child, he adored him.
“I idolized my father, especially as a young boy. He was bigger than life. He commanded the room. He’d done everything, seen everything,” he told Fox. “It’s pretty heady stuff to grow up with.”
“He was Latin, he was very judgmental, he thought a woman’s place was in the kitchen. He just happened to marry a woman who was a top ten box office star of the ’50s, and she retired to serve him!”
First work in acting
Lorenzo’s father married actress Esther Williams in 1969, a year after their move to “The Big Apple,” and life for Lorenzo got tough at times. For example, when Esther’s children visited, Lorenzo wasn’t even allowed to sleep in the house!
“He was many things, but he was also fair, so if he wasn’t going to allow another man’s children in his house, then he couldn’t allow me in the house,” he recalled.
“So my roommate was a Rolls Royce. I had a key that let me in the backdoor where there was a guest bathroom. But I came from military school, so living in a garage in Beverly Hills was plush to me. I had shared a urinal with 30 guys for the last four years. Looking back, I know that’s not normal. I know that I would never do that to my kids. I run my three teenage daughters around like a chauffeur.”
Lorenzo Lamas attended private school and graduated from the Admiral Farragut Academy in 1975. Instead of staying on the East Coast, he decided to leave for his home state of California.
Though his father could be a strict man, he always encouraged his son to follow his dreams and backed him wholeheartedly in pursuing his dreams of becoming an actor. Lorenzo enrolled at Tony Barr’s Film Actors Workshop. In 1977, he got his first minor role in television, starring in two episodes of the show Switch.
While cultivating his acting talent, Lorenzo also found that he had a tremendous interest in martial arts. He got in shape – and later on, earned black belts in both taekwondo and karate.
Lorenzo Lamas in ‘Grease’
Now, getting roles in bigger productions often takes time for most actors. Some have to try out at hundreds of auditions to get one part; others have to wait years, maybe even decades, to land their first role in a more significant Hollywood production.
For Lorenzo Lamas, however, this wasn’t the case. In 1978, he was cast as the good-looking stud “Tom Chisum” in the legendary film Grease, featuring John Travolta and Olivia Newton-John. He played the boyfriend of Olivia Newton-John’s character, “Sandy”. That said, he initially wasn’t chosen for the part.
Steven Ford – son of former President Gerald Ford – was considered for the role, but was reportedly too nervous to play “Tom”. The part had no dialogue, but that didn’t bother Lorenzo when he got the gig.
People probably knew that the film had potential at the time, but even so, it’s safe to say that Lamas secured himself an extraordinary place in film history with his relatively small credit in Grease.
“I’m amazed by the longevity. It keeps finding new generations of people,” he told Studio 10.
Lorenzo had dark hair at the time, but the producers thought he looked too much like a “T-Bird” to star as Sandy’s boyfriend. As a result, they dyed his hair lighter – something that he didn’t mind at all.
“I would have dyed it green, fuchsia, anything,” he told People.
At the time, John Travolta and Olivia Newton-John were already stars. For Lorenzo Lamas, it was a dream come true just to meet them. What made the whole thing even better, was that Olivia Newton-Jon had been Lorenzo’s childhood crush.
Became a star on ‘Falcon Crest’
“I was 19. It was only the third thing I’ve ever done. And I was at the Paramount lot, meeting my childhood crush, Olivia Newton-John, and Mr. Saturday Night Fever, John Travolta. So I was kind of in a complete zombie state, to begin with,” Lorenzo recalled.
He explained that he had all her albums, and in high school, he and his friends even had routines dancing to her albums. When they finally met, Lorenzo was almost knocked off his heels.
“I couldn’t take my eyes off her,” he told Studio 10.
Grease was, of course, a big deal for Lorenzo and a fantastic opportunity when looking back. Naturally, though, it wasn’t quite a breakthrough since he only appeared in a few scenes.
In 1981, he got the role of Lance Cumson on Falcon Crest. The nighttime soap became a huge success, with Lamas starring alongside Oscar-winning actress Jane Wyman for 228 episodes.
Wyman portrayed Lamas’ grandmother on the show – at that time, she was a massive Hollywood star. Lamas had problems with illegal substances at this point in his career, until one day on set, Wyman had enough of his behavior
Became a star on ‘Falcon Crest’
“I was 19. It was only the third thing I’ve ever done. And I was at the Paramount lot, meeting my childhood crush, Olivia Newton-John, and Mr. Saturday Night Fever, John Travolta. So I was kind of in a complete zombie state, to begin with,” Lorenzo recalled.
He explained that he had all her albums, and in high school, he and his friends even had routines dancing to her albums. When they finally met, Lorenzo was almost knocked off his heels.
“I couldn’t take my eyes off her,” he told Studio 10.
Grease was, of course, a big deal for Lorenzo and a fantastic opportunity when looking back. Naturally, though, it wasn’t quite a breakthrough since he only appeared in a few scenes.
In 1981, he got the role of Lance Cumson on Falcon Crest. The nighttime soap became a huge success, with Lamas starring alongside Oscar-winning actress Jane Wyman for 228 episodes.
Wyman portrayed Lamas’ grandmother on the show – at that time, she was a massive Hollywood star. Lamas had problems with illegal substances at this point in his career, until one day on set, Wyman had enough of his behavior
She Left Her Newborn on a Business Class Seat – You Won’t Believe What Happens 13 Years Later!
A Woman Abandoned Her Newborn Baby on a Plane Seat – 13 Years Later, She Returns to Find Him
Rhonda was just a 16-year-old girl when she discovered she was pregnant. Her life took a dramatic turn when she told her father, David Harris, about the baby. David, a wealthy man who owned a large textile company, was not pleased with the news. He had always controlled Rhonda’s life and expected her to follow his wishes.
When Rhonda told him she was pregnant, he was furious. “PREGNANT?! You must be out of your mind, Rhonda!” he yelled. Her father didn’t support her decision to keep the baby and told her she would need to figure out how to raise the child on her own.
“You’re going to get rid of that child, Rhonda. Do you get it?” David said firmly. Rhonda, however, had made up her mind. She refused to abort the baby and told her father she would raise the child by herself. David was unimpressed and gave her an ultimatum: if she kept the baby, she would have to leave his home.
Feeling unsupported, Rhonda packed her bags and left that night, cutting all ties with her father. She ended up at Peter’s house, the father of her child, hoping he would help her. But to her shock, Peter turned his back on her too.
Peter said, “Look, babe, I’m not ready to be a father. You should have stayed with your family. Your father could have helped us.” Rhonda couldn’t believe what she was hearing. Peter had once been excited about the pregnancy, but now he was abandoning her. “If you keep the baby, we’re over,” Peter said, slamming the door in her face.
With no one on her side, Rhonda left Peter’s house in tears, unsure where to go. As she wandered the streets, a sharp pain hit her stomach. She was going into labor. Desperate for help, Rhonda pleaded with strangers, but no one paid attention. Just when things seemed hopeless, a woman named Angela Bamford noticed her and helped her into her car. Angela rushed her to the hospital, where Rhonda gave birth to a healthy baby boy.
The next morning, as Rhonda recovered, Angela sat by her bedside. “Thank you for helping me,” Rhonda whispered, worried about the future of her child. Angela was sympathetic to Rhonda’s situation and listened as Rhonda shared her heartbreaking story.
“I can’t take care of him,” Rhonda sobbed. “I’m homeless, and I don’t know how I’ll provide for him.”
Angela shared a painful memory with Rhonda. “I had a daughter your age once. When we found out she was pregnant, we kicked her out. She couldn’t handle it and took her own life. I don’t want anyone else to go through what she did.”
Angela offered to help Rhonda. “I’ll buy you a ticket. You can start over and give your baby a better life.” Rhonda was hesitant but eventually agreed to take the help. Angela arranged for Rhonda and her newborn to fly from Texas to New York, where Rhonda hoped to build a new life.
On the plane, Rhonda’s mind was filled with worry. She was terrified of the future and whether she could care for her son. As the plane landed at JFK, Rhonda’s fears overwhelmed her. She was scared she wouldn’t be able to provide a good life for her baby in a new city. In a moment of desperation, Rhonda made a heartbreaking decision.
She left her baby on the plane seat with a note. She hoped someone would take him in and give him the life she couldn’t. As the other passengers disembarked, she quickly exited the plane, feeling torn but convinced it was for the best.
A flight attendant named Lincy discovered the baby when the plane was empty. She was shocked to find the note left by Rhonda. It read: *“I’m a poor mother who couldn’t care for my child. Please accept him as your own. I hope you name him Matthew Harris.”* Lincy was moved by the message and decided to take action.
**Thirteen Years Later**
For 13 years, Rhonda struggled with homelessness and poverty in New York City. She had gone through a lot, but eventually, she was able to find a steady job and start rebuilding her life. However, every day, she felt the weight of her decision to leave Matthew behind.
Now that Rhonda was financially stable, she felt ready to face the guilt she had carried for years. She decided to search for Matthew, the son she had left behind. With the help of a police officer, she was able to track him down. To her surprise, Matthew had been adopted by Lincy, the flight attendant who had discovered him on the plane.
Rhonda reached out to Lincy, explaining everything that had happened. Lincy was hesitant but agreed to help Rhonda explain herself to Matthew. When Rhonda met Matthew for the first time in 13 years, he was angry and confused.
“My mom? You must be kidding me!” Matthew shouted. “Where have you been all these years? I don’t need you! I’m happy with my adoptive parents.”
Rhonda’s heart sank. “Matthew, please listen to me,” she begged. “I never wanted to leave you. I didn’t have a choice. I was poor, and your father had abandoned me. I didn’t know what to do.”
Matthew wasn’t ready to accept her explanation. “You left me alone! I don’t care what you say. I have a family now.”
Lincy, seeing the tension between them, stepped in. “Matthew, I know this is hard. But your mother is trying to explain herself. Please, just give her a chance to talk.”
Rhonda was devastated by Matthew’s anger but knew she had to try. “I can’t undo what I did, but I’ve changed. Can you give me a chance? I just want to be a part of your life.”
Matthew paused for a moment, his emotions conflicted. “I don’t know… I can forgive you, maybe. But I can’t call you ‘mom.’ I already have a mother.”
Rhonda nodded, tears streaming down her face. “That’s okay. Can I at least see you on weekends?”
Matthew agreed, and over time, their relationship began to heal.
Today, Matthew is a 23-year-old data scientist in New York City. He has forgiven Rhonda for abandoning him and accepted her back into his life. Rhonda, now in a stable relationship with a man named Andrew, is grateful for the chance to rebuild her relationship with her son. She even met Angela again when she returned to Texas, and the older woman was happy to see that Rhonda had turned her life around.
This story is one of pain, loss, and redemption. Rhonda’s journey shows that even the hardest decisions can lead to healing when both sides are willing to try.
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