When it comes to food preparation, every family has its own unique traditions, routines, and quirks. But what happens when food safety practices clash with longstanding habits? Imagine sitting down to dinner, only to realize the potatoes on the table were cooked with their skins unwashed. Do you dig in, or do you hold back, especially when your kids are involved.
Why Washing Vegetables Is More Than Just a Habit

First things first, let’s address the basics. Washing vegetables isn’t just a step in your recipe—it’s a critical part of ensuring your food is safe to eat. Potatoes, in particular, grow underground and are covered in soil when harvested. That soil isn’t just dirt; it can harbor bacteria like E. coli or Salmonella, which are known to cause foodborne illnesses.
Even though cooking kills many bacteria, washing is a precautionary measure that prevents dirt, harmful microorganisms, and even pesticide residues from making their way into your meal. Think of it like washing your hands before you eat—it’s a simple step that protects your health and your family’s.
The Risks of Eating Unwashed Potatoes
Let’s get real: eating unwashed potatoes is more than just a little gross—it can actually be risky. Soil clinging to the potato skins often contains bacteria, and in rare cases, these bacteria can make you or your loved ones seriously ill. Here are the two major risks associated with eating unwashed potatoes:
- Bacterial Contamination
Soil can harbor harmful bacteria like Listeria, E. coli, and Salmonella. If these aren’t washed away, they may end up on your plate, posing a risk of foodborne illnesses that can cause symptoms like nausea, vomiting, or worse. - Pesticide Residue
Many commercially grown potatoes are sprayed with pesticides to keep pests away. These chemicals often remain on the skin and require thorough washing to remove. Consuming pesticides over time could lead to health issues, particularly for children with developing immune systems.
When you factor in kids at the dinner table, the stakes get even higher. Their smaller bodies are more vulnerable to toxins and bacteria, making washing potatoes a non-negotiable step in food preparation.
The Nutritional Goldmine in Potato Skins
Here’s the catch: while unwashed potato skins can pose risks, properly cleaned potato skins are a nutritional treasure trove. The skin of a potato contains:
- Fiber, which aids digestion.
- Vitamin C, an immune booster.
- Potassium, vital for muscle function and heart health.
- Antioxidants, which protect your cells from damage.
In fact, peeling potatoes removes about 50% of their fiber and 20% of their nutrients. So, the goal isn’t to avoid potato skins altogether but to make sure they’re clean enough to safely enjoy. A properly scrubbed potato lets you enjoy the best of both worlds: flavor and nutrition.
Cultural Habits vs. Modern Food Safety
Let’s not forget: cooking and eating habits are deeply tied to culture and family traditions. In some households, cooking potatoes with unwashed skins might be seen as harmless, even a time-saving trick. After all, “We’ve done it this way for years, and no one’s ever gotten sick,” might be the rationale.
But food safety practices have evolved alongside our understanding of bacteria and pesticides. Just because something was a common practice in the past doesn’t mean it’s the safest option today. While honoring tradition is important, so is prioritizing health—especially when young children are involved.
How to Properly Wash Potatoes for Maximum Safety

Washing potatoes isn’t rocket science, but doing it the right way ensures you get rid of all the dirt and harmful residues. Follow these steps for clean, safe potatoes every time:
- Rinse Thoroughly
Hold the potatoes under cold running water to wash away surface dirt. - Scrub the Skins
Use a vegetable brush to gently scrub the skins. This step is especially important for removing stubborn dirt and bacteria lodged in crevices. - Soak (Optional)
For an extra layer of safety, soak the potatoes in a mixture of water and vinegar for about 10 minutes. This helps loosen dirt and remove pesticide residues. - Rinse Again
Give the potatoes a final rinse to ensure no debris remains.
Once you’ve cleaned them, you can cook your potatoes however you like—boiling, roasting, or mashing—with peace of mind.
Addressing Food Safety Concerns with Family
If you’re ever in a situation where a family member prepares unwashed potatoes, addressing the issue can be tricky. No one wants to come across as judgmental or ungrateful, but food safety is too important to ignore. Here’s how you can approach the conversation diplomatically:
- Start with Empathy
Acknowledge their effort in preparing the meal. For example, “I really appreciate all the work you put into dinner tonight.” - Express Your Concerns Gently
Share your concerns without making it personal. You might say, “I’ve been reading about how washing potatoes can help remove bacteria and pesticides. It’s something I’m trying to be more mindful of, especially for the kids.” - Offer Solutions
Suggest ways to help next time, like assisting with the prep or offering to bring a vegetable scrubber as a gift.

Approaching the conversation with respect and understanding can help ensure your concerns are taken seriously without hurting feelings.
Finding the Balance Between Safety and Tradition
At the end of the day, the decision to eat or avoid unwashed potatoes boils down to balancing safety and tradition. It’s possible to honor family cooking habits while also incorporating modern food safety practices. Whether it’s washing potatoes before cooking or gently communicating your concerns, the goal is to create meals that are safe, delicious, and enjoyable for everyone at the table.
Conclusion: Clean Potatoes, Happy Family
So, is washing potatoes before cooking a must? Absolutely. It’s a simple, effective step that protects you and your family from potential health risks while preserving the rich nutrition that potato skins offer. While family traditions and cooking habits may differ, prioritizing food safety doesn’t have to mean abandoning what you love. By taking small, thoughtful steps—like properly washing potatoes—you can keep mealtime both safe and meaningful. After all, when it comes to feeding your loved ones, why take unnecessary risks?
Husband Texts He’s in a Business Meeting & Cancels Our Date—I Saw Him Leaving Work at the Same Time

Leighton, after witnessing how her parents celebrated their anniversary, is sure about one thing — when she gets married, she will do just that. But when her anniversary rolls around, her husband skips their romantic dinner and lies about a meeting. Curiosity prevails, and Leighton follows Josh, only to find him at a motel with the first person he ever loved. Is there a hidden truth, or is the story exactly what it looks like?
I grew up in a home where anniversaries were important and had to be celebrated. It was just something that my parents always paid extra attention to.
My mother would bake a cake every year on their anniversary, even if my father had dinner plans for them.

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“It’s important to celebrate a marriage, Leighton,” my mother would say.
And she would usually be decorating the cake at this point.
“I mean, you’ll understand it one day,” she said. “But married life is difficult, and that’s why you have to celebrate making it another year.”

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Since then, I knew that if I ever got married, wedding anniversaries would be a big deal.
And then I met Josh, who seemed to understand the importance of it — or at least, the sentimentality of it all.
So, the other day was our sixth anniversary, and because it was the middle of the week, there just wasn’t going to be enough time to plan something intimate at home.

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A dinner out was going to be our best option.
“It’s not a bad idea, Leighton,” Josh said when I told him that we had to settle on that.
“It’s much easier, anyway,” I said, thinking about the fuss of getting home and having to cook an elaborate dinner after a long day at the office.
The weekend before our anniversary, I went shopping and got Josh a new set of ties — my husband was into his tie collection and was always looking to add to it.

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Then, on the day, I arranged to pick Josh up from work, excited for our romantic dinner at our favorite restaurant.
I left work a little earlier than usual and parked across the road from Josh’s building, waiting for him to leave work. I sat in the car, reapplying my lipstick and sorting my hair out. I sang along to the radio and waited.
Twenty minutes later, Josh still hadn’t come out. I tried calling him, but he didn’t answer either.

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Eventually, I sent him a text:
Hey, honey! I’m waiting outside — I’m parked across the flower shop.
Not even a minute later, my phone pinged with a text message notification.
Caught up in a meeting, don’t wait for me. I’ll see you at home.

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My heart sank. I understood the importance of work — especially because Josh loved his job, and he always brought work home, often going through spreadsheets in bed at night.
I was disappointed, I mean, it was our special day. But I knew that these things were sometimes beyond our control. I picked up my phone to reply before driving off.

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Sure, see you later.
Starting the car, I could only think about sinking my teeth into a sugary donut.
“You can’t keep eating your feelings,” I told myself. “But today calls for it.”
Just then, I saw Josh push open the building door, his briefcase at his side, and his phone in his hand.

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He walked briskly to an unfamiliar car and slid in — not even glancing to see if I was around.
Moments ago, I could imagine eating a donut, now I could only taste confusion and betrayal thick on my tongue.
Of course, I followed him. I needed to know who was driving the car and where they were headed.
I needed to know who my husband would rather spend our anniversary with if not me.

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I followed the car for about fifteen minutes before it started to slow down — we were just outside of town now. There were fewer buildings around, and it was quieter. If anything, the air seemed lighter and fresh.
“What are you up to, Josh?” I asked the silence around me.

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Eventually, the car led me to a decrepit motel on the outskirts of the city. I watched, hidden by the shadows, as my husband got out of the car. Moments later, another man stepped out of the car.
He was also in a suit, holding onto a stack of paperwork. But he walked in another direction — to the motel office, it seemed.

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Josh, on the other hand, walked straight up to a room. He knocked once, opened the door, and disappeared into a room.
I couldn’t sit back any longer. My feet moved on their own accord across the street, and there I was, outside the door that was slightly ajar.
A murmur of voices seeped out, spilling onto the pavement.

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Pushing the door open, my eyes landed on a scene that knocked the wind out of me.
There was Josh, sitting at a little table, surrounded by paperwork. Directly across from him was a woman. But it wasn’t just any woman, it was Sophia — Josh’s first love.
I couldn’t understand what was happening. It was our anniversary, and Josh was here, in a run-down motel with the first woman he had loved.
It made no sense, but at the same time, a story seemed to be unfolding.

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“Happy anniversary,” I said, the words laced with bitterness.
My husband leaped up, his face full of shock and his mouth hanging open.
“Leighton,” he said. “It’s not what it looks like!”
Sophia, her face flushed with surprise, began gathering the papers.
“Then what is it?” I asked. “You skipped dinner for whatever this is.”
My voice broke, teetering on the edge of anger and sorrow.

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“No, Leighton, listen,” Sophia interjected, her voice calm, trying to soothe the storm.
“What are those papers for?” I asked.
I couldn’t see what they were, but my mind was convinced that they were divorce papers. Why else would my husband be sitting in a motel room with another woman?

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“Darling,” Josh said, taking a step toward me. “We’re planning to buy this motel.”
“What?” I asked, genuinely surprised by the turn of events.
“We thought that it would make a perfect business venture,” Sophia said. “This isn’t about me, Leighton. I just have the contacts to help it happen. The man who drove Josh here is my husband. He’s sorting out the final paperwork with the owner, who happens to be his brother-in-law.”
My husband nodded earnestly, adding, “I wanted this to be our new start, something that you and I could build together. To create a legacy for ourselves. This was supposed to be official last week, but there was a delay with the owner.”

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“We only had this evening to sign everything,” Sophia chirped in.
The room was thick with tension as I processed their words.
“Why didn’t you just tell me that?” my voice softened as my heart rate slowed down.
Sophia looked from Josh to me and back to the pile of paperwork. She helped herself to a piece of candy from the dish in front of her.

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“I thought keeping it a surprise until everything was set would be… I don’t know, more special?” he said.
He looked down at the dirty carpet beneath our feet.
“So, what now?” I asked, looking at my watch.
“The moment my husband gets back with the signed documents, Josh can sign, and we’ll be done here,” Sophia said, picking up her handbag.

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“Have a seat,” Josh said, pulling out a chair for me. “The moment I sign, we can get out of here.”
Sophia excused herself, claiming that she wanted to check out the vending machine because she was starving.
“You really just wanted this to be a surprise?” I asked Josh.
“Of course,” he said. “I’ve been looking into property for a while now. I want it to be our safety net in terms of finances.”

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We sat together and spoke for a little while longer before Sophia and her husband came in, carrying the stack of paperwork that I had seen him holding earlier.
“Almost done now,” Sophia said, handing Josh a pen.
A little while later, we were in my car, with Josh driving us home.

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“I know it’s late, and that we have missed our reservation,” he said. “But let’s get some dinner anyway.”
We went to a diner not too far away from our home.
“No more secrets, Josh,” I said as our food arrived.
“I promise,” he said, reaching for my hand across the table, his eyes earnest.
As we drove home, I realized that although the night had not gone as planned, perhaps it needed to have been that way. With a promise renewed and a future venture to embark on together.

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But as Josh showered that evening, I pulled out the anniversary cake that I had gotten the day before. As it had been my parents’ tradition, I wanted it to become ours.
I surprised Josh with the cake as he was getting into bed.
“This is better than a fancy dinner,” he said.
After seeing the motel, I know that there’s going to be a lot of time and dedication going into it. At least while we try to make it our own.
I have paint swatches and room layouts already planned in my head.

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What would you have done?
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