I Was Excited to Meet My Fiancé’s Parents, but Dinner Turned Into a Nightmare – Story of the Day

Meeting my fiancé’s parents should have been exciting, but nothing prepared me for the tension and judgment that followed. Between the quiet stares, sharp words, and unexpected secrets, the evening turned into a whirlwind I’ll never forget.

Mark and I had been together for about a year, and just recently, he proposed. It wasn’t the dreamy, candlelit proposal I had imagined as a little girl, but it was heartfelt, and I knew it came from a place of love.

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Besides, Mark and I would’ve ended up engaged anyway—it was just a matter of timing.

He proposed shortly after we found out I was pregnant. The pregnancy wasn’t planned, but the moment we saw those two little lines, everything changed. We were thrilled, nervous, and ready to tackle parenthood together.

That evening, we had dinner plans with Mark’s parents, and I was a bundle of nerves.

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Mark always described them as strict and traditional, which made me feel like I was stepping into an interview instead of a family meal.

Still, I told myself I could win them over. I’d always been good at making people like me—or so I hoped.

When Mark got home from work, I immediately began rifling through my closet.

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I must have tried on ten outfits, spinning in front of the mirror, asking, “Is this okay?”

Each time, Mark smiled and said, “You look great.”

But “great” wasn’t enough. I needed to look flawless. First impressions were everything.

In the end, I laughed at myself, realizing I had chosen the very first outfit I’d tried on.

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“Do you think they’ll like me?” I asked, twisting my hair into place.

“Of course, they’ll like you. How could they not?” Mark said, watching me in the mirror.

“But what if they don’t?” I asked, turning to face him.

“Then it doesn’t matter,” he said, his voice calm. “The only thing that matters is that I like you.”

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“Like?” I teased, raising an eyebrow.

Mark smirked. “I like you more than anyone. I love you even more.”

I laughed softly. “Good save.”

Mark leaned in and kissed me, his grin warm and reassuring. “You’ll be perfect.”

Once we were ready, I carefully picked up the cherry pie I had baked for the dinner.

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The warm, sweet scent was comforting, like a small reminder that I had put effort into tonight. Mark opened the car door for me, and we both climbed in.

During the drive to his parents’ house, I couldn’t help but notice Mark gripping the steering wheel a little too tightly.

His jaw was set, and his eyes focused straight ahead. “Are you okay?” I asked softly.

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“Yeah,” he said, but his voice wavered. I reached over, taking his hand. I wasn’t sure if I was trying to calm him or myself.

When we pulled up in front of the house, Mark sighed and looked at me. “Just… don’t say anything unnecessary, okay?”

“I won’t,” I promised.

We walked to the door, hearts pounding, and Mark rang the bell. A moment later, his mother appeared.

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“Hi, we’ve been waiting for you,” she said, her tone sharp but polite. “I’m Erin, though I assume you already know that,” she added, her eyes fixed on me.

“Yes, I’m Danica,” I replied, forcing a smile as I held out the pie. “I baked a cherry pie. Mark told me it’s your favorite.”

Erin’s face changed instantly, her smile fading. “A pie, hmm? I thought the host was supposed to handle the food. Or do you think I can’t bake my own pie?”

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“No, of course not!” I said quickly. “I just wanted to bring something special. I didn’t mean to offend you.”

She looked at the pie, then back at me. “It’s fine. Come in,” she said, stepping aside without another word.

Dinner was painfully quiet. The only sounds were the clinking of silverware and the occasional scrape of a chair.

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Mark had warned me his family didn’t talk during meals, but I thought he was joking.

Sitting there in silence felt awkward and unnatural. I glanced at Mark, but he just gave me a small, reassuring smile.

When we finished eating, I stood up to help Erin clear the table. She didn’t say much, just nodded and muttered a quick “thank you.”

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We moved to the living room, where Mark’s father, George, sat stiffly, barely looking at me.

He seemed uninterested, like I was a guest he didn’t ask for. Conversation turned to the wedding, but I had little to share.

“What kind of dress are you thinking of?” Erin asked, her eyes scanning me like she was already judging my answer.

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Before I could respond, George spoke up. “Erin, leave the girl alone. You’ve been bombarding her with questions all evening.” His tone was gruff, but it was the first time he had addressed me.

“It’s fine. I don’t mind,” I said, offering a small smile, though my nerves were fraying.

“See, George? She doesn’t mind,” Erin said, smiling back at me for the first time. It felt almost like approval, and I let out a small breath of relief.

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I looked at Mark and smiled, taking his hand. His touch grounded me. But the warmth of the moment vanished as Erin’s smile hardened.

“Danica, dear, in our family, we don’t show affection in front of others, especially before marriage,” she said, her tone sharp.

I dropped Mark’s hand like it was on fire. “I’m sorry,” I whispered, embarrassed.

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“So,” Erin continued, her focus shifting back to me, “what kind of dress do you want? You have such a lovely figure. Something fitted and long would suit you perfectly.”

I hesitated, feeling my cheeks heat up. “Well, I won’t have this figure for long. I’ll be five months along by the wedding, so I was thinking of something more flowing.”

Mark groaned softly and buried his face in his hands. My stomach dropped.

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“Five months along?” Erin’s voice was clipped, her eyebrow arched in disbelief.

I nodded. “Pregnant,” I said simply.

The room felt like it froze. Erin gasped, clutching her chest like I had just confessed to a crime. “Oh, my God,” she whispered. “What a disgrace! My son is going to have a child out of wedlock!”

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I blinked, stunned. “Excuse me, what?”

“This is shameful! You’re a disgrace to our family! How could you do such a thing before marriage?” Erin shouted, her voice rising with each word.

“We’re adults,” I said, trying to stay calm. “We’re excited about this baby—”

“Danica, stop talking,” Mark muttered under his breath.

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“How could you choose such a shameless fiancée?” Erin yelled at Mark. “She must have seduced you!”

“Erin, stop yelling at her. She’s pregnant,” George said, his voice cutting through her tirade.

“That’s the problem! What will people say?” Erin wailed. “Get out of my house! I don’t want to see you again!”

Tears spilled over as I stammered, “What did I do? I don’t understand…”

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“You and your illegitimate child are a stain on this family!” Erin spat. “Maybe it’s not too late for an abortion?”

I gasped. “What? What are you saying?” I cried, choking on my tears. Mark stayed silent, his face unreadable.

“Danica, let’s go,” Mark finally said, grabbing my hand.

Outside, his frustration boiled over. “What was that?!” he yelled at me.

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“I should be asking you that!” I shot back, my voice shaking.

“I told you not to say anything unnecessary!” he snapped.

“I didn’t know our child was ‘unnecessary’ to you!” I yelled.

“Not to me—to them,” he replied sharply.

“You said their opinions didn’t matter!” I cried, shaking my head.

“I warned you they were conservative,” he said, his voice flat.

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I looked at him, my heart breaking. “I’m staying at my place tonight,” I said, my tone firm, before turning away.

I still had a month left on the lease for my old apartment, so Mark drove me there. The ride was silent, tense.

When he pulled up, I stepped out without a word. Once inside, I sat on the couch, tears streaming down my face.

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My chest ached as I replayed the dinner over and over. Mark hadn’t defended me or our baby.

How could he let his mother say those things? My thoughts spiraled, and I placed a hand on my stomach, wondering if all this stress was hurting the baby.

The next morning, a firm knock startled me awake. Groggy, I shuffled to the door and opened it. George stood there, his expression unreadable.

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“How are you?” George asked, his voice calm but firm.

“What are you doing here?” I snapped, crossing my arms.

“I came to apologize for Erin,” he said, glancing down briefly. “She can be… overly emotional.”

I hesitated, then stepped back. “Would you like to come in?”

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“No, I won’t stay long,” he replied, shaking his head. “I just wanted to explain. This is personal for her. Her parents were very conservative, even more than she is. When we got married, she was already pregnant with Mark.”

I stared at him, stunned. “What? Then why did she react so negatively to me being pregnant?”

George sighed, shifting uncomfortably. “She has always felt ashamed of it. She thinks we should have waited. She doesn’t regret having Mark, but it’s something she struggles with. I wanted you to know.”

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I frowned, still hurt but trying to understand. “That’s why she treated me like that? To protect some old-fashioned idea of pride?”

George nodded. “Yes. You can share this with Mark or even tell Erin’s relatives if she keeps making a fuss.”

“I won’t tell anyone,” I said softly. “I don’t want her to feel as hurt as I do now.”

George gave me a small nod, then turned to leave.

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After he left, I decided to return to Mark. But as I stepped outside, I froze. He was standing there, holding a bouquet of flowers.

“I’m sorry,” Mark said, looking right at me. “I should have stood up for you and the baby. I didn’t know what to do, and I was scared.”

“Thank you for apologizing. It hurt so much,” I admitted.

“It won’t happen again. I promise, I’ll always be on your side,” he said, his voice steady.

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I nodded, a small smile breaking through. “Thank you.”

Mark leaned in, and I kissed him.

Suddenly, his phone buzzed. He stepped aside to answer it.

“It was my mom,” he said when he came back. “She wants to apologize. She asked what your favorite pie is.”

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I smiled faintly. “Tell her I love cherry pie too.”

Mark grinned. “Looks like you already have something in common.”

“You have no idea,” I whispered, letting him pull me into a warm hug.

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17 Nannies Whose Adventures Could Fill a Best-Selling Novel

Some people view nannying as a simple job. Tasks like feeding children, reading them stories, and putting them to bed seem routine. However, that’s not always true. The people featured in our article shared their experiences caring for other people’s children, and now we wouldn’t dream of calling this profession dull.

I was 13 and was babysitting my neighbors’ kids. It was my first time, so the parents walked me through all the rules about the bathroom, TV, food, bedtime, etc. Just as the parents were taking off for the night, the mom came back in and whispered to me, “Don’t go into the basement.” As a teenager in the 80s, my mind went to all of the scariest movies that had basements. I avoided the door to the basement all night until I had put the kids to bed.
Then I walked slowly to the door and put my ear against it. I heard what sounded like whimpering. And then it sounded like sad laughing. I ran to the couch and started watching TV to get my mind off of it, but then I heard something fall in the basement and knew someone was down there. I really don’t know how I got the courage/stupidity to do it, but I went over and opened the door. The whining instantly got louder.
I went down just 3 or 4 stairs, so I could peek down… and I saw… a goat. Not a ghost. A goat. As soon as the goat saw me, he started bleating loudly. It scared me. I went upstairs, and the goat was still bleating loudly, so much that it woke up the kids.
The oldest girl came out and said, “Did you open the door to the basement?” I said, “Yeah, why?” She said, “When you do that, Carlos thinks you’re going to feed him, and he starts yelling.” Thank god I knew it was a goat first, because if she had said that before I went down, I would’ve thought Carlos was some kidnapped person in the basement who would yell for food.
It was very funny to me. The mom came home and I told her what happened, and she almost died laughing. They were repairing the goat pen and had to keep him in the basement for a few days. I still remember every moment of that night vividly. © Unknown author / RedditIn my early twenties, I would babysit a set of twins on the weekend once in a while. Their mom was super beautiful, and she was always going on dates.
One night, she told me she met a guy and was going on a date with him. She left at 6 and said she’d be back around midnight. Well, pushing 1 a.m., I’m thinking maybe she’s running late. 2 a.m., 3 a.m… I’m calling and calling her and finally her phone just goes to voice mail. I wake up, and it’s 7 a.m. and she still isn’t back.
I finally found the grandparent’s number in an address book. I call her parents, and they don’t even seem phased. They just seem annoyed like this is business as usual but tell me they’ll be over to sit with the twins, so I can leave. I call the non-emergency police number and explain what’s going on and that the grandparents are on their way.
I stick around for another hour, and then she pulls up wearing a men’s t-shirt, and heels, and she’s laughing. She says jokingly, “Oh my god! Call the police!” I never sat for her again. She just ended up staying with the guy all night and turned her phone off so she couldn’t be bothered. She truly thought I’d dismiss it like it was no big deal. © Kikabennet / Reddit

  • The dad of the kids I watched liked me on Tinder. Then, when I told his wife, and she didn’t believe me, he convinced her that “his Facebook was hacked.” The kids were almost always wonderful. © marymoon77 / Reddit
  • I work as a nanny in the family of a big businessman. At first, I worked several times a week, then I started living in their house. The head of the family works almost round the clock, his wife doesn’t notice anything but clothes, spas, and fitness.
    Yesterday, their 5-year-old son stole money from his father’s safe, came to me, and said we should run away together. I returned the money immediately, but how to explain to a child why I love him more than his mother, I don’t know… © Overheard / Ideer
  • I’m a nanny, and I heard her first word (it was hippo). But the family won’t ever know that. Some secrets are better to keep. © positivityfox / Reddit
  • First babysitting job at 13. Four kids. My parents gave me a whole fresh salmon to COOK and serve the kids. I learned that day that salmon has pin bones when I had to pull some out of the 3-year-old’s throat while simultaneously calling my parents down the road because I didn’t know what to do, as he was coughing and gasping for air. He was fine, but I think I lost 10 years of my life that day. © nah2daysun / Reddit
  • A lady tried to dump 2 extra kids on me without paying when she realized I was babysitting her neighbor’s kids. Her rationale was that I was already babysitting 2 kids and 2 more wasn’t that much, so I should watch her kids for free and let them eat her neighbor’s food. © CaptDeliciousPants / Reddit
  • I’m not a nanny, but I’ve been babysitting a girl on and off from when she was 5 to 7 now.
    Her: What is that?
    Me: Pineapple
    Her: Oh, I’ve never had pineapple.
    Me: Do you want to try it?
    She does this about everything, too. I asked her mom if she had ever had pineapple, and she was like of course, she has! Then I realized she was just trying to eat my food. © Kacidillaa / Reddit
  • I nannied for a wealthy couple, and the husband had a study in the house that the wife joked about never being allowed in. Now, I’m nosy, and I was curious about why you wouldn’t let someone in a study, especially since it looked like a fairly normal room: big desk, walls covered in bookshelves, books of architecture everywhere.
    So one day I just roamed around in there. I didn’t find anything, and I was kinda disappointed, but then I grabbed a book off one of the shelves. The thing had money pressed between its pages — about $500 if I had to guess. Picked up another book, and found the same thing.
    I think I checked like ten different books, and every single one had money hidden in it. Still not sure if the dude was just paranoid about banks or if he was intentionally hiding money from his wife. © Unknown author / Reddit
  • I babysat two neighbor kids one time. I had a lot of experience babysitting, but it was my first time with this particular family. The little boy was about 5, and the little girl was maybe 7. Their parents left very specific instructions for bedtime, and they were kept on a very strict schedule. I thankfully had my best friend with me at the time, we were probably 15.
    Bedtime came around, and after several warnings, we told them it was time to get upstairs, get into PJs, and carry on with their bedtime routine. They went ballistic. The little boy started tearing the cushions off their leather couch, tossing them everywhere, and biting a hole in the arm of the couch. While I was trying to deal with him, my best friend was trying to get the little girl upstairs when she ran into the kitchen, dumped their entire mop bucket of dirty water on the floor, and started sliding around in it. As soon as the couch-chewer saw the fun his sister was having, he joined in.
    I ended up calling my mom for reinforcement, and never babysat for that family again. © soxxyrocks / Reddit
  • So the father of the kid works for a major athletic apparel company, and every year they need to test the upcoming year’s potential pieces. To do that, the company sends one of every potential piece to all female employees and female spouses.
    Well, the mother is pregnant right now and can’t fit into any of the items, so the father made me a cup of tea and asked me to sit down in the living room (what he does whenever he wants to talk to me about something) and says, “I know we’re not paying you to do this, but would you be willing to test all of the sample pieces my company sent me? You can keep them afterward.”
    Yes! Y’all, no kidding, he just handed me 6 boxes of athletic clothing that have to total thousands of dollars. © pineappleprincesspie / Reddit
  • I was in the living room, watching Sister, Sister,when all of a sudden I heard a man say, “Hello.” I check the front door and look out the window at the driveway, the parents aren’t home. Go upstairs and check the kids, they’re both still in bed.
    Go back downstairs, and hear it again, from the darkened dining room, “Hello, I am Armando.” They had a parrot. © Unknown author / Reddit
  • I only babysat once, and it was nothing horrible. These people had a huge rich house, and everything looked great, but when it was time for the kids’ bed, I figured I’d read them a bedtime story. I searched through that magnificent house and couldn’t find a single solitary book. © TRIGMILLION / Reddit
  • So, it is that time of the month for me. I go into the bathroom, and while unwrapping a feminine hygiene product, the kid yells from outside the door, “I can hear you eating candy in there!” It made my day and made me wish that I was eating candy. © HalleysComet5 / Reddit
  • I was working as a nanny, and the children’s mother once told me, “My husband doesn’t think we should pay you for when the girls are sleeping…” They were 4 months and 2 years old.
    I was a junior in high school and responded, “Okay, so should I duck out once I tuck them in?” I wouldn’t have done that, but I think at that point she realized how ridiculous her request was. © reckate / Reddit
  • I had a phone interview with a mom that went well, so we met in person for a second interview with her husband and 4 children. It went well until she explained her nanny was fired for having an affair with her husband and how their new nanny needed better morals and to limit her interaction with her husband (who was sitting there the whole time with us).
    I’ve never felt more awkward in my whole life as she told me that I’m pretty but thankfully not his type as he just nodded his head. I just find it irritating how it’s the nanny’s fault when her husband also had the affair, and how the nanny needs morals when her husband doesn’t. So yeah, definitely not accepting this job! © thisisdevon- / Reddit

Working as a regular nanny is challenging enough, so imagine being a nanny for a royal family. There are strict rules to follow, such as being allowed to wear only specific types of jewelry.

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