At 72, Everly was told she was “too old” and her attire “inappropriate” for a fashionable restaurant. Her comeback? A Facebook post that went viral, igniting a public outcry for change.
My name is Everly, and even at 72, my zest for new experiences hasn’t waned. It was a sunny Thursday morning when my daughter, Nancy, unexpectedly visited my small garden shop. Her arrival was a surprise, and her proposal even more so. “Mom, let’s check out that new restaurant downtown,” she suggested, her eyes alight with excitement.
Our outfits were modest; I was in my favorite floral blouse and khaki trousers, and Nancy wore jeans and a T-shirt. For us, it wasn’t about how we dressed but about enjoying each other’s company.
We talked about the restaurant as we drove, looking forward to creating a new memory together. However, we were unaware that this simple outing was about to take an unforeseen turn.
Upon entering the restaurant, we were met with modern music and lively chatter. The place was filled with a young, fashion-forward crowd, making our casual clothes stand out. But that didn’t bother us; we were there for the food and the experience.
Just as we were getting seated by the window, a young waiter approached us. Initially courteous, his demeanor shifted upon noticing our attire. “I’m sorry,” he began, his tone now less friendly, “but this place might not be suitable for you.”
“You seem to be too old for our usual clientele,” he added, “and your attire really isn’t appropriate for the ambiance we strive for here.” Nancy’s cheeks flushed with indignation while a sharp sting of rejection hit me—not for who I was, but for my appearance and my age.
His next words were even more cutting. “We would prefer if you left our restaurant so as not to disturb the other guests,” he said bluntly. Before we could react, he signaled for security. The arrival of two burly bodyguards emphasized that he was serious.
The embarrassment was immediate and intense. Around us, I could feel the stares of other patrons, some curious, others indifferent. Nancy gripped my hand tightly, and we left quietly, the waiter’s hurtful words echoing in our ears.
I was heartbroken, feeling a mix of shame and sadness at being judged so harshly in what should have been a welcoming place.
Once outside, Nancy, fueled by anger, took photos of the bodyguards. “We have to expose this, Mom. People need to know about their discriminatory behavior,” she insisted.
That evening, we shared our experience on Facebook, detailing how we were unfairly judged based on our age and appearance. Nancy tagged the restaurant, calling for her friends to spread the word.
The post exploded overnight, shared thousands of times with comments of shock and support flooding in. Many shared similar stories of discrimination, painting a broader picture of ageism and superficial judgments in businesses. The restaurant’s online ratings plummeted as people expressed their displeasure.
Amidst the viral storm, the restaurant owner, Mr. Thompson, contacted me personally. He was apologetic and distressed about the incident. “Mrs. Everly, I’m truly sorry. I was unaware of the incident as it unfolded,” he admitted, his voice laden with regret. “The young waiter is my son, who was managing in my absence.”
He explained his absence due to a business trip and his son’s lack of experience in handling the restaurant. “I would like to invite you back for a complimentary meal and to personally apologize,” he offered earnestly.
I was hesitant but recognized his sincerity. “Mr. Thompson, it’s important that this isn’t just about a free meal. It’s about respect and how people are treated,” I replied, hoping he understood the significance of the issue.
He agreed wholeheartedly. “You’re absolutely right, Mrs. Everly. I’ve discussed this at length with my son. He’s here now and would like to apologize as well. He needs to learn to respect all customers, regardless of age or dress.”
“I’ve made it clear he will not inherit the business until he fully adopts these values,” Mr. Thompson shared, his tone that of a concerned father taking corrective measures.
This conversation with Mr. Thompson was a step in the right direction, showing a commitment to change and understanding. Feeling a mix of validation and contemplation, I ended the call somewhat reassured.
A week later, dressed in my finest silk dress, I returned to the restaurant, ready to face the place that had judged me so unfairly. As I walked in, Mr. Thompson greeted me with genuine warmth, guiding me to a beautifully arranged table.
The waiter, Mr. Thompson’s son, approached with evident nervousness, a stark change from his earlier demeanor. “Mrs. Everly, I am sincerely sorry for how I acted before. It was disrespectful,” he apologized, his remorse apparent.
Following our meal, which was both delicious and meaningful, I updated my Facebook to share the positive turn of events. “Change is achievable,” I wrote, “when we confront injustice and when those at fault are willing to learn and improve.”
Reflecting on the whole experience, I realized the impact of one voice, amplified by social media. It wasn’t just about getting an apology but about affirming that respect should be universal, regardless of age or appearance. This incident taught me the power of standing firm for one’s dignity.
We’ve All Waited for It: Scientists Created a Drug That Can Help Regrow Lost Teeth
The tooth fairy is a welcome guest for any child who has lost a tooth. Not only will the fairy leave a small gift under the child’s pillow, but they be assured of a replacement tooth in a few months. Unfortunately, the scenario is quite different for adults grappling with a loss of teeth. Luckily, there may be some hope thanks to a new study performed by scientists at Kyoto University and the University of Fukui.
A dental breakthrough
While the typical adult mouth houses 32 teeth, approximately 1% of the population exhibits variations of them, either possessing more or fewer teeth due to congenital conditions. Researchers have delved into the genetic factors behind cases of excessive teeth, seeking valuable insights into the potential regeneration of teeth in adults. This study is the first to show that monoclonal antibodies can help regrow teeth. It suggests a new way to treat a dental problem that currently requires implants and other artificial solutions.
A bit of science
The research team disclosed that an antibody targeting a specific gene, known as uterine sensitization-associated gene-1 (USAG-1), can induce tooth development in mice affected by tooth agenesis, a congenital condition. The findings were published in the journal, Science Advances.
As per Katsu Takahashi, a senior lecturer at the Kyoto University Graduate School of Medicine and one of the principal contributors to the study, the essential molecules crucial for the development of teeth have already been pinpointed. “The morphogenesis of individual teeth depends on the interactions of several molecules including BMP, or bone morphogenetic protein, and Wnt signaling,” says Takahashi.
On April 13, 2021, the University of Kyoto posted its first pic of newly-grown teeth in mice.
BMP and Wnt are involved in more than just tooth development; they affect the growth of organs and tissues early in the body’s development. Because drugs affecting them directly might have broad side effects, scientists are cautious. To find a potentially safer method, researchers focused on the gene USAG-1, thinking that aiming at factors countering BMP and Wnt specifically in tooth development could be more precise.
“We knew that suppressing USAG-1 benefits tooth growth. What we did not know was whether it would be enough,” added Takahashi.
The first results
Scientists looked at how different monoclonal antibodies affect USAG-1. Monoclonal antibodies are often used to treat things like cancer and arthritis and for making vaccines. Tests with this antibody showed that BMP signaling is crucial for deciding the number of teeth in mice. Also, just one treatment was enough to grow a whole tooth. Further tests confirmed these positive results in ferrets too.
“Ferrets are diphyodont animals with similar dental patterns to humans. Our next plan is to test the antibodies on other animals, such as pigs and dogs,” explained Takahashi.
Fully regrown frontal teeth in ferrets
The next steps
Now, scientists are going to test the drug on healthy adults. If that goes well, the team plans to try it on kids aged 2 to 6 with a rare tooth problem called anodontia, a genetic disorder defined as the absence of all teeth. These kids will get one shot of the drug to see if it makes their teeth grow. If everything works out, the medicine might be approved by 2030.
Takahashi sees the new medicine as an additional choice for individuals who are missing some or all of their teeth.
“The idea of growing new teeth is every dentist’s dream,” Takahashi told the Japanese newspaper, The Mainichi in June this year. “I’ve been working on this since I was a graduate student. I was confident I’d be able to make it happen.”
So hopefully, by the year 2030, humans will get a chance to have their third generation of teeth grown and say goodbye to implants. Until then, make sure to keep your teeth strong and healthy — this article will help you with that.
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