As the best-selling female artist in country music history, and one of the best-selling music artists of all time, Shania Twain is going to live on forever – at least in our hearts.
Often referred to as the “Queen of Country Pop”, she conquered the world and became a global superstar in the 90s.
But few know the struggles she has faced in her life. First, she was a poor, starving kid before her breakthrough. Not to mention the fact that her life changed completely at 22 – when an unbearable tragedy forced new responsibilities upon her…
Rocky childhood
Shania Twain was born Eilleen Regina Edwards in Windsor, Ontario, on August 28, 1965. She would later change her surname when Shania’s mother, Sharon, remarried a man called Jerry Twain.
Since Shania’s biological father wasn’t present during her upbringing, she never publicly acknowledged him as her dad. Instead, Jerry took it upon himself to raise Shania, legally adopting her and her two sisters.
”My father (Jerry) went out of his way to raise three daughters that weren’t even his. For me to acknowledge another man as my father, a man who was never there for me as a father, who wasn’t the one who struggled every day to put food on our table, would have hurt him terribly,” Shania once said.
All things considered, Shania had a difficult childhood. She grew up in poverty in Timmins, rural Canada, and her family was far from wealthy. Her step-father Jerry, a full-blooded Ojibway, had a hard time providing for the family and earned little money.
As a result, Shania and her sisters didn’t always have food on the table. Sometimes, the only thing served was a dish known as “goulash”: dry bread with boiled milk and brown sugar. During the cold winters in Canada, Shania was forced to wear bread bags on her feet because her parents couldn’t afford proper boots.
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But as a young girl, she never told anyone about her situation. The future Queen of Country Pop feared that the authorities would break up the family if she spoke up about their hardships.
Lived in ”survivor mode”
Meanwhile, the marriage between Sharon and Jerry was also rocky. At one time, Shania convinced her mom to run away from Jerry, so Shania, her mom and her sisters fled to a homeless shelter in Toronto. However, when Shania was 16, her mother returned to Jerry, and they decided to give things another try.
Shania told how she lived in “survivor mode” into her adult years, due to the instability of her childhood home. She didn’t feel that she could rely on her parents to neither protect her or to be consistent caregivers.
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Now, when Shania turned eight, she had started singing at bars to help pay the bills at home. It was a daring move for a young girl, and Shania didn’t exactly like doing it. At the same time, though, she could earn as much as $20 a night, a vital economic injection in her struggling family household.
“My deepest passion was music and it helped. There were moments when I thought, ‘I hate this.’ I hated going into bars and being with drunks. But I loved the music and so I survived,” she said in Shania Twain: The Biography.
Performing at rural bars and in retirement homes in Canada also helped Shania develop her stage language and explore her talent. Before long, she was ready for a bigger scene.
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When she was 13, Shania got to perform on the Tommy Hunter Show, a legendary country music variety show that aired on CBC Television and ran for 27 years. Hosted by Tommy Hunter, known as “Canada’s Country Gentleman,” it gave Shania an excellent opportunity to promote herself as a country singer.
In the mid-1980s, Shania was a struggling singer-songwriter trying to establish herself in the music industry. She had joined her first band, Longshot, as a 16-year-old, but relocated to Toronto when she was 21.
As time went on, more and more people began to discover the talented and beautiful songstress. When famous country singer Mary Bailey saw Shania perform in Sudbury, Ontario, she was stunned.
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“I saw this little girl up on stage with a guitar and it absolutely blew me away. She performed Willie Nelson‘s “Blue Eyes Crying in the Rain” and Hank Williams’ “I’m So Lonesome I Could Cry”. Her voice reminded me of Tanya Tucker, it had strength and character, a lot of feeling. She’s a star, she deserves an opportunity,” Bailey, who would later become Shania’s manager, recalled.
“She sang a few songs that she had written, and I thought to myself, this kid is like nineteen years old, where does she get this? This is from a person who’s lived sixty years”.
In 1987, the road was open for Shania, and she had every opportunity to break through as a country artist. Nashville and big money were waiting for her.
Then tragedy struck and changed everything.
Parents passing
On the afternoon of November 1, 1987, Shania’s parents were driving on a remote logging road on their way to a work site.
Unfortunately, they collided with a truck loaded with timber. Both Jerry and Sharon died in the crash, leaving behind two sons and three daughters.
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“I feel like I’ve been this tree with good sturdy roots for 30 years, then all of a sudden someone comes along and is trying to cut me down, cut a part me off,” Shania said.
When she heard the news, Shania was devastated. She decided to return to her native Timmins. Instead of focusing on her music career, Shania had to take care of her younger siblings, who were 13, 14, and 18 at the time.
“It was a very, very difficult time. But it was also a turning point in my life that, I think, matured me, brought me up to where I should have been in the first place at that age,” she told CBC.
She raised them all by herself, ensuring they had the support they needed. Later, Shania decided to move to Huntsville, Ontario, with all her siblings. There, she landed a job as a singer and dancer at the Deerhurst Resort.
“I was just going to give up music,” Shania said in 1995.
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“I thought, my family comes first. I have to take care of them. I didn’t even think of my future…. I’m lucky I got the job at Deerhurst, because it was music. I didn’t know where I was going to go from there.”
Road to stardom
During her time at Deerhurst, the gorgeous singer, with her signature brown hair and beautiful voice, developed her skills as an entertainer.
After putting together a demo tape of her song, she caught the attention of a Mercury Nashville Records executive. Shania was invited to Nashville and released her self-titled debut album, Shania Twain, in 1993. It wasn’t a commercial success, but received positive reviews from critics.
One person who really loved what he heard was South African record producer Mutt Lange. In fact, he was so impressed that he reached out to Shania and asked if he could produce and write some songs with her.
After meeting at Nashville’s Fan Fair in June 1993, they started an intense collaboration and became very close in a short time. Six months later, the couple married. Shania was more than a decade younger than Mutt, but the couple obviously had something special. Together, they wrote many hit songs on the forthcoming albums that would catapult Shania into stardom, The Woman in Me (1995) and Come On Over (1997).
By 2007, The Woman in Me had sold more than 12 million copies in the United States. At the time of its release it was a huge success, turning Shania Twain into a star overnight.
“We just took a stab in the dark, followed our instincts, and it worked out. I think there was something on that album for everybody,” Shania told The News Tribune in 1997.
Most often, Shania wrote the lyrics, and Mutt created the music. While producing Come On Over, Mutt tried to slip in riffs from rock-n-roll; he had previously worked with AC/DC and Def Leppard.
The outcome was a marriage of country & rock, resulting in an international pop breakthrough and 40 million copies sold worldwide. The 1997 album featured many of Shania’s most famous songs, including “You’re Still The One” and “Man! I Feel Like A Woman”.
“In my mind, I was just being myself and that was the great thing of all — to just be able to be myself and let my personality come through in the music,” Shania told The Associated Press.
It is no exaggeration to say that “Shaniamania” hit America full force in the late 1990s. Today, Come On Over is the ninth highest-selling album by any type of artist in the US, and the top-selling country album in history.
Shania Twain marriage
On August 12, 2001, Shania and Mutt Lange welcomed a son. They named him Eja (pronounced “Asia”) and, according to the media, Shania delivered her son at a hospital in Switzerland, without any “media fanfare”.
The down-to-earth charm that earned her admiration from all over the world was reflected in her pregnancy. Shania kept things quiet and private – she released no details about Eja when he was born.
Cried constantly
A few years later, however, she would be forced to go through a public divorce, one where less flattering details came out in the media.
For many years, Twain’s marriage had been plagued by rumors – some gossip columnists claimed that the couple had huge problems. Shania commented on the rumors in 1997, denying that the couple would divorce.
”Mutt and I are an unlikely pair,” she said.
“There’s been talk in the tabloids that we’re divorcing, but we are very happy. We love each other in every way. We have a great creative relationship and a great personal relationship. We feel as strong as ever – and “Still the One” is sort of my own personal song about marriage.”
In 2008, though, Shania and her husband separated. The reason? Lange had engaged in an affair with Shania’s best friend, Marie-Anne Thiébaud.
Shania was, of course, completely heartbroken. She said she cried constantly and took five baths a day. According to the country star, she was ”ready to die”.
“I’ll be honest: when your husband leaves you, and falls into the arms of your close friend, your self-esteem can really suffer,” she said.
Shania and Marie-Anne were really good friends who had first met when the latter was hired as an assistant and interpreter for Mutt Lange. After finding out about the affair, Shania confronted her so-called friend.
”I just told her that she was a bad person – that’s all I could get out!’
‘When I left her, I thought, “You’re such a wimp, you coward!”‘
Shania Twain husband
Soon, things would take another unexpected turn. While trying to cope with her heartbreak, Shania found love again.
In 2011, Shania married businessman Frédéric Thiébaud, Marie-Anne’s former husband. The two bonded over the heartbreak and tied the knot in Puerto Rico in front of 40 people, mostly close friends and family.
“I don’t take any day for granted any more. Fred has give me a new lease on love,” Shania told the Daily Mail.
Shania said she had found “a true friend and a dear gentleman” and that her husband of 10+ years is a true gift to her. When they started dating, Fred surprised her with romantic trips – once he flew her to a Swiss glacier, and once he hired a whole movie theatre just for her.
“It’s twisted. So beautifully twisted,” she said.
“To express my love, words are not enough. I’m more in love with her every day,” Thiebaud added.
Shania Twain today
Shania Twain is a long-time resident of Corseaux, Switzerland, where she resides with her husband. She rarely gives interviews and the Queen of Country Pop is known for being notoriously private.
In recent years, she has released several albums with varying degrees of success. Right now, she’s doing a show in Las Vegas, where she takes “fans on a journey through her award-winning career with the best elements from her iconic videos and visual spectacles of her sold out global tours.”
She has also tried her luck in the film industry, appearing in several movies over the years. In 2019, she starred alongside John Travolta in Trading Paint, and in 2020 portrayed the mother of singer Jeremy Camp in the autobiographical movie I Still Believe.
Though Shania does not appear as often on the top lists today, she has left a massive mark in popular culture. Once the reigning queen of country music, she helped influence artists such as Britney Spears, Taylor Swift, and Carrie Underwood.
“I think we were all definitely influenced by Shania, even if we don’t realize it. (Her music) was so different and kind of revolutionary at the time. She definitely paved the way for a lot of us,” Carrie Underwood told AP in 2016.
Shania Twain on aging
Shania was also very forward-thinking with her outfits and classic supermodel looks. In 2009, she was voted the No. 1 Most Beautiful Canadian by readers of Hello! magazine. Over the years, the country star has been pretty open about her secrets as regards looking young.
Reportedly, she’s a vegetarian, eats a lot of raw food, and meditates on a daily basis.
“A happy heart comes first, then the happy face,” she said.
Shania, now 59, also revealed how she’s dealing with the effects of age.
“I’m pretty insecure about my changing body… I’m letting ‘the girls’ hang loose under my sweat clothes around the house and when someone comes to the door, I cross my arms under them for support,” she told EW.
“For me personally, I’m sure it’s very different for everybody, but I just started with time. Stepping out of battles that I couldn’t win. I mean, you know, aging is a battle you can’t win,” she said in 2020, in the LadyGang podcast.
“That battle and the focus and energy it takes, is taking up too much space! In my life, my emotional state, my mental state. I’ve got songs to write. I’m not gonna sit around,” said Twain.
Voltei para casa mais cedo e encontrei minha filha e meu marido atrás de uma porta fechada – a revelação deles me chocou
Uma dor de cabeça terrível me fez ir para casa mais cedo, e eu esperava por uma tarde tranquila sozinha. Mas ver minha filha, que deveria estar na escola, e seu padrasto atrás daquela porta fechada me abalou profundamente. O que descobri partiu meu coração em dois e me deixou em lágrimas.
“Mãe, eu simplesmente não consigo me dar bem com o Mike! Eu tenho meus motivos, ok?” minha filha Lily costumava dizer sempre que eu mencionava o padrasto dela. Isso doía. Essa cena se repetiu inúmeras vezes nos últimos quatro anos, desde que me casei com o Mike. Minha filha de 12 anos, geralmente tão doce e alegre, se transformava em uma pessoa completamente diferente perto do padrasto. 
Uma jovem garota furiosa | Fonte: Midjourney
Eu observava impotente enquanto os olhos de Lily endureciam, suas pequenas mãos se fechando em punhos ao lado do corpo. A transformação foi tão rápida quanto dolorosa de testemunhar.
“Querida, por favor”, eu implorava, estendendo a mão para ela. “Mike te ama. Ele está se esforçando tanto…”
Mas Lily sempre me cortava, sua voz tremendo de raiva e algo mais que eu não conseguia identificar. Era mágoa? Medo? Eu não entendia o que era então.
Uma mulher angustiada sentada no sofá | Fonte: Midjourney
“Você não entende, mãe! Você nunca vai entender!” ela gritava.
E com isso, ela saía furiosa para o quarto, me deixando no corredor, com o coração pesado de preocupação e frustração.
“Dê tempo a ela”, todos disseram. “Famílias misturadas são difíceis.”
Conforme os meses se transformavam em anos, comecei a me perguntar se Lily aceitaria Mike como parte da nossa família. Cada tentativa que ele fazia de se conectar com ela era recebida com ombros frios ou explosões de raiva.
Um homem chateado segurando a cabeça | Fonte: Midjourney
Meu coração doeu pelos dois — por Lily, que parecia carregar um fardo que eu não conseguia entender, e por Mike, que se esforçou tanto para ser uma boa figura paterna.
Eu mal sabia que tudo estava prestes a mudar de maneiras que eu nunca poderia ter imaginado.
Sou Elizabeth, 35 anos, e uma mãe que tenta o seu melhor para navegar nas águas agitadas de uma família misturada. Meu primeiro marido, o pai biológico de Lily, faleceu quando ela era apenas um bebê. Por anos, éramos apenas nós dois contra o mundo.
Então conheci o Mike.
Um casal se abraçando | Fonte: Unsplash
Mike era tudo o que eu poderia esperar de um parceiro e padrasto. Paciente, gentil e infinitamente compreensivo com o delicado equilíbrio necessário em nossa situação.
Nós nos casamos há quatro anos, quando Lily tinha oito anos, e embora nosso amor se fortalecesse a cada dia, a resistência de Lily em aceitar Mike nunca diminuiu.
“Eu o odeio”, ela dizia, com o rosto jovem e uma expressão determinada.
“Ele te ama, querida”, eu respondia, tentando esconder minha frustração. “Ele só quer fazer parte da nossa família.”
Mas minhas palavras pareciam cair em ouvidos moucos.
Uma garota carrancuda | Fonte: Midjourney
Lily manteve distância, sempre insistindo que tinha suas razões para não aceitar Mike. Essas razões permaneceram um mistério para mim, não importa o quanto eu tentasse descobri-las.
O dia em que tudo mudou começou como qualquer outro. Eu saí para o trabalho, Mike foi para o escritório dele e Lily pegou o ônibus para a escola.
Por volta do meio-dia, uma dor de cabeça terrível me forçou a sair do trabalho mais cedo. Enquanto dirigia para casa, imaginei a casa silenciosa e vazia me esperando… um lugar perfeito para deitar e me recuperar.
Uma mulher dirigindo um carro | Fonte: Unsplash
Mas quando entrei na garagem, notei algo estranho. O carro de Mike estava estacionado de qualquer jeito, como se ele estivesse com pressa. E não era a mochila de Lily na varanda?
Uma sensação de desconforto tomou conta de mim. Por que os dois estavam em casa? Aconteceu alguma coisa?
Aproximei-me da porta da frente, meu coração batendo forte. Estava ligeiramente entreaberta, e eu podia ouvir vozes abafadas de dentro. Respirando fundo, empurrei-a para abrir.
Uma porta aberta | Fonte: Unsplash
“Lily? Mike?”, gritei, mas não houve resposta.
A casa estava estranhamente silenciosa enquanto eu me movia pelo corredor. Mas então ouvi algo que fez meu sangue gelar. Gritos suaves vindos da sala de estar.
Minha mente correu com possibilidades, cada uma pior que a anterior. Eles estavam brigando? Lily tinha se machucado?
Senti meu peito apertar de ansiedade enquanto alcançava a porta da sala de estar. Empurrei-a para abrir, me preparando para o pior.
Mas o que vi me deixou sem fôlego.
Uma mulher boquiaberta em choque | Fonte: Midjourney
Lily estava parada no meio da sala, usando um lindo vestido azul que fluía até o chão. Seu cabelo estava elegantemente penteado, tão diferente de seu rabo de cavalo casual de sempre.
E lá estava Mike, elegante em um terno que eu nunca tinha visto antes.
Os rostos de ambos estavam cobertos de lágrimas.
“Mãe!” Lily arfou, seus olhos arregalados de choque. “Você chegou cedo em casa!”
Entrei na sala, minha mente se esforçando para entender a cena diante de mim.
“O que está acontecendo aqui?”, eu suspirei.
Uma garota assustada | Fonte: Midjourney
Mike se aproximou de mim, suas mãos estendidas em um gesto apaziguador. “Elizabeth, não é o que você pensa. Nós podemos explicar.”
Lily enxugou os olhos apressadamente, seu rosto corado. “Nós estávamos apenas… praticando,” ela deixou escapar.
“Praticando? Praticando para quê?”
Mike e Lily trocaram um olhar que não consegui decifrar. Então Mike respirou fundo e disse: “Para o baile de pai e filha na escola de Lily. Ela… ela me pediu para ir com ela.”
Eu senti como se o chão tivesse se movido sob meus pés. Depois de anos com Lily afastando Mike, isso parecia impossível.
Um homem sorrindo | Fonte: Midjourney
“Mas eu pensei…” Parei de falar, incapaz de terminar a frase.
O lábio inferior de Lily tremeu. “Sinto muito, mãe”, ela disse, com os olhos baixos. “Eu queria que fosse uma surpresa.”
Afundei na cadeira mais próxima, impressionado com a mudança repentina em tudo que eu achava que sabia.
“Não entendo”, eu disse, olhando entre Lily e Mike. “O que mudou?”
Uma mulher atordoada | Fonte: Midjourney
A compostura de Lily desmoronou. Ela correu até mim, caindo de joelhos ao lado da minha cadeira.
“Oh, mãe”, ela soluçou, “eu fui tão cega! Eu achava que odiava Mike, mas não entendia o quanto ele realmente me amava até… até que ele me salvou.”
Meu coração pulou uma batida. “Salvou você? O que você quer dizer, querida?”
Uma menina triste com os olhos fechados | Fonte: Midjourney
Lily respirou fundo, trêmula, e seus olhos encontraram os de Mike por um momento antes de continuar.
“Semana passada, quando eu estava voltando da escola para casa, havia esses meninos mais velhos. Eles estavam me provocando, me empurrando. Eu estava com tanto medo, mãe. E então, de repente, Mike estava lá. Ele os enfrentou e os fez me deixar em paz. Ele era… ele era como um pai de verdade.”
Mike se aproximou, colocando uma mão gentil no ombro de Lily. “Eu não suportaria ver você machucada, Lily. Você significa o mundo para mim, mesmo quando me afasta.”
Um homem com os olhos baixos | Fonte: Midjourney
Senti lágrimas brotando em meus olhos enquanto os observava, percebendo o novo entendimento entre eles.
“Depois disso, percebi o quão estúpida eu fui. Mike não estava substituindo o papai. Ele sempre esteve lá por mim, e eu fui teimosa demais para perceber isso”, Lily concluiu.
“Oh, querida,” sussurrei, puxando-a para um abraço. “Por que você não me contou sobre isso antes?”
“Eu queria te surpreender. Te mostrar que… que nós poderíamos ser uma família de verdade. É por isso que estamos praticando para essa dança. Eu quero consertar as coisas.”
Uma mulher emocional | Fonte: Midjourney
Mike se ajoelhou ao nosso lado, colocando uma mão hesitante no ombro de Lily. “Lily, seu pai sempre será seu pai. Nada pode mudar isso. Não estou tentando substituí-lo. Eu só… eu só quero te amar, se você me deixar.”
Lily se virou para encarar Mike, seus olhos vermelhos. “Eu sei disso agora. E eu quero tentar. É por isso que eu te convidei para o baile. Eu pensei que talvez… talvez pudéssemos recomeçar?”
O rosto de Mike se iluminou com um sorriso tão brilhante que poderia ter alimentado a casa inteira. “Eu gostaria muito disso”, ele disse, abrindo os braços.
Um homem emocionado sorrindo | Fonte: Midjourney
Lily hesitou por apenas um momento antes de se jogar em seu abraço. Eu assisti, lágrimas escorrendo pelo meu rosto enquanto anos de tensão derretiam naquele único abraço.
Quando eles finalmente se separaram, ambos rindo e chorando ao mesmo tempo, eu encontrei minha voz novamente. “Então, essa dança”, eu disse, gesticulando para suas roupas. “Quando você estava planejando me contar sobre isso?”
Lily sorriu timidamente. “Queríamos surpreender você no evento real!”
Uma menina sorrindo | Fonte: Midjourney
Mike limpou a garganta, ajeitando a gravata. “Bem, já que o gato saiu da bolsa, o que você acha de mostrarmos à sua mãe no que estamos trabalhando, Lily?”
Os olhos de Lily brilharam. “Sim! Mãe, você tem que ver nossa dança. Estamos praticando há dias!”
Recostei-me na cadeira, com um largo sorriso no rosto. “Eu não adoraria nada mais.”
Uma mulher com os olhos marejados | Fonte: Midjourney
Quando eles começaram a se movimentar pela sala, fiquei impressionado com o quão naturais eles pareciam juntos.
A mão de Mike pousou gentilmente nas costas de Lily, guiando-a pelos degraus. O rosto de Lily era uma imagem de concentração, sua língua ligeiramente para fora enquanto ela se concentrava em não pisar nos dedos de Mike.
“Um, dois, três… Um, dois, três…” Mike contou suavemente, guiando Lily por um simples passo de caixa.
“Estou fazendo certo?”, ela perguntou, olhando para ele ansiosamente.
O sorriso de Mike era caloroso e encorajador. “Você está indo muito bem, querida. Apenas relaxe e sinta a música.”
Um homem e uma jovem dançando | Fonte: Midjourney
Seus movimentos graciosos acalmavam minha alma. Isso era tudo que eu sempre quis para eles… essa companhia fácil, essa afeição mútua. Esse amor.
A música terminou, e Lily se separou de Mike com um floreio teatral. “Ta-da!” ela exclamou, respirando pesadamente, mas radiante de orgulho.
Bati palmas entusiasticamente, meu coração transbordando de amor por ambos. “Isso foi maravilhoso! Vocês dois formam um belo par.”
Uma mulher alegre batendo palmas | Fonte: Midjourney
Eu sabia que tudo ficaria bem quando olhei para os rostos sorridentes de Mike e Lily. Tínhamos virado uma esquina, e embora eu tivesse certeza de que ainda haveria desafios pela frente, nós os enfrentaríamos juntos como uma família.
No final, o baile não foi apenas um evento escolar; foi uma celebração do amor, da aceitação e da beleza das segundas chances.
Ao abraçar minha filha e meu marido, senti uma esperança avassaladora por nossa família. Juntos, estávamos aprendendo que o amor pode curar até as feridas mais profundas, e que família não é só sobre sangue; é sobre os laços que escolhemos nutrir e o amor que escolhemos dar.
Uma mulher encantada sorrindo | Fonte: Midjourney
Aqui vai outra história : Um único vídeo de câmera escondida da secretária do meu marido afundou meu coração. Eu queria que tivesse sido um caso. Mas o que eu vi foi muito mais devastador.
Este trabalho é inspirado em eventos e pessoas reais, mas foi ficcionalizado para fins criativos. Nomes, personagens e detalhes foram alterados para proteger a privacidade e melhorar a narrativa. Qualquer semelhança com pessoas reais, vivas ou mortas, ou eventos reais é mera coincidência e não intencional do autor.
O autor e a editora não fazem nenhuma reivindicação quanto à precisão dos eventos ou à representação dos personagens e não são responsáveis por nenhuma interpretação errônea. Esta história é fornecida “como está”, e quaisquer opiniões expressas são as dos personagens e não refletem as opiniões do autor ou da editora.
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