Father Who Was Covered In Tattoos Shares His Shocking Transformation Story After Painful Surgeries to Remove Them

Older generations used to warn that people shouldn’t get tattoos because they’re permanent and someone may one day regret getting them. However, these days tattoo removal is an option. Although painful, it works after a few sessions but can leave behind some scarring. Either way, 35-year-old Leandro De Souza has decided to undergo laser treatments to remove almost 2 decades worth of ink.

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Leandro De Souza is a native of Brazil and a proud father. However, his divorce almost a decade ago proved to be almost more than he could handle. As a result, De Souza went down a path of partying. During this time he accumulated more than 170 tattoos but his first ink was at just 13 years old. “I did the first one when I was 13,” De Souza explained. “The first ones were very much about the idolatry of the time.” However, he’s recently set out on a religious path of Evangelicalism. As a result, he’s decided to undergo the laser tattoo removal process.

Facing Heartbreak

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Leandro’s first tattoos were inspired by his favorite bands, such as Nirvana, Guns N’ Roses, and Metallica. However, the majority of his tattoos were from a decade-long binge following his divorce. During that time, Leandro admittedly experimented with drugs like LSD, alcohol, and ecstasy.

Finding Motivation for Tattoo Removal

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I couldn’t stand the life I was living anymore. I was an attraction at (events I attended) and it felt like a circus animal.” He said regarding his decision for tattoo removal. De Souza was visiting a shelter almost a decade after his difficult divorce. This visit would change the course of his life. “The first step in everything in life is to accept that you can’t do it alone, that you are an addict, that you are a drug addict,” de Souza said. “And I managed to do that, I entered the municipal shelter in Bagé. Within a week, there was a lady who referred me and started to evangelize me.

Turning a New Leaf

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It’s been 2 years since De Souza changed his life and opted for tattoo removal. However, it’s a long process that will be more so for De Souza’s 170 tattoos. Moreover, he now spends his time speaking with “parents and children in homes that are in prisons.”

Leandro began the tattoo removal process with the help of a tattoo studio in Franco da Rocha, São Paulo, which heard about the exciting changes Leandro was making to turn his life around. He’s now been clean from alcohol for 3 years, and free of tobacco and other substances for a year. De Souza still has 6 more tattoo removal sessions before his ink is gone and his transformation, so far, is astonishing and awe-inspiring.

Tattoo Removal is a Modern Possibility

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For many, getting a tattoo is inspired by the desire to express one’s creativity, treating their body like a canvas. However, others may regret their ink choices as they mature or their interests and relationship status change. Fortunately, tattoo removal is possible with advancing technology but there are a few side effects like tenderness, skin irritability, and even scarring.

Tattoo Removal Methods

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Interestingly, tattoo removal comes with options. De Souza’s treatment, laser tattoo removal, uses lasers to “heat the ink particles,” breaking them down and making it “easier for your immune system to remove,” according to Cleveland Clinic. Laser tattoo removal sessions are scheduled about 3 months apart and can last anywhere from 30 minutes to an hour depending on the size of the ink. This method does come with side effects that range from mild skin irritation to painful blisters, but each person responds differently to treatment.

Skin Removal for Tattoo Removal

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Another option for tattoo removal is surgical excision. The medical procedure requires a surgeon, who will “cut out the skin that contains a tattoo.” Then they will “stitch your remaining skin together.” The procedure probably sounds intimidating but it’s only used for small tattoos, as cutting an entire back tattoo and then stitching it up would be unpleasant, dangerous, and seemingly impossible.

Meanwhile, dermabrasion and chemical peels are used to remove the outer layers of skin. Unfortunately, both can cause severe skin sensitivity, especially in sunlight. Therefore, understanding the risks and how to treat the skin properly as it heals is essential to your skin’s health and physical comfort.

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Lastly, and possibly least popular and effective, are tattoo removal creams. They can be used at home and often take months or years to yield results. Furthermore, they contain acids that “irritate or damage your skin.” As such, they’re usually advised against by medical professionals.

Can Anyone Get Tattoo Removal

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In short, yes. However, some things are worth noting when considering tattoo removal. Firstly, tattoo removal takes time and similar or repetitive steps to be effective, regardless of your chosen tattoo removal method. The reason for this is that a tattoo artist applies ink in layers of the skin, so layers have to be broken down which can’t happen in one sitting, otherwise you’ll suffer severe and irreversible skin damage. Ultimately, that would put your overall health and immunity at risk. Additionally, your skin needs time between sessions to “flush out the ink” so, it’s recommended to wait a few weeks or months between most tattoo removal options listed above.

Secondly, certain ink colors are easier to remove than others. For example, blue and black are easy to remove during laser tattoo removal because “they’re better at absorbing light.” Meanwhile, colors like red are difficult to remove because their “molecular composition” is more resistant to the treatment options.

An Alternative

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Consider having them turned into something else, rather than removed. For instance, if you’re considering tattoo removal and the reason has nothing to do with necessity, for work, or because, like De Souza, you’re on a new path. Instead, you don’t like how it looks anymore, have separated from the person who inspired the tattoo, or have other interests. In this case, you might consider another visit to the tattoo shop to have them create something else by covering the existing tattoo. For many, this option may be more satisfying and less time-consuming.

My Sister and Her Family Took Over My House Without Asking — They Faced Instant Consequences That Same Day

I won’t deny that I sometimes envy my friends living in their fancy apartments downtown, but then I remember that this place is mine. No landlord breathing down my neck, and no roommates leaving dirty dishes in the sink. Just me and my space.

Now, let me introduce you to my sister, Holly.

She’s 38, a mother of two, and married to her high school sweetheart, Nicholas. We used to be close when we were younger, but things changed when she got married. She started focusing more on her new life, and I never blamed her. I believe she did what she thought was best for her.

We drifted apart, but we were still on good terms. Or so I thought.

Holly and Nicholas have always been the free-spirited types. They’re one of those people who’re always talking about “quitting the rat race” and “living life to the fullest.”

It used to drive me nuts when we’d get together for family dinners.

“Life’s too short to be stuck in a cubicle, Phoebe,” Holly would say, sipping her wine. “You should travel more, see the world!”

I’d roll my eyes.

“Some of us like having a steady paycheck and a roof over our heads, Holly.”

Nicholas would chime in, “But think of the experiences! The memories!”

Yeah, well, memories don’t pay the bills, buddy, I’d think.

I tried to tell them to be more careful with their money. They were always jetting off on last-minute trips or buying the latest gadgets, even with two young kids to think about.

But did they listen? Nope.

A few months ago, they actually did it. They sold their house during the market boom, thinking they’d use the profit to fund a year-long break to “travel the world.”

I remember the conversation like it was yesterday.

“We’re doing it, Phoebe!” Holly squealed over the phone. “We sold the house!”

“What?” I nearly choked on my coffee. “Holly, are you serious? What about the kids’ school? Your jobs?”

“Oh, we’ll homeschool them on the road. It’ll be an education in itself! And we can always find work later. This is our chance to really live!”

I tried to talk some sense into her. I was really worried.

“Holly, have you really thought this through? Travel is expensive, especially with kids. What happens when the money runs out?”

“Don’t be such a worrywart, Phoebe,” she said, brushing off the concerns. “We’ve got it all figured out. We’ll stay in hostels, maybe do some volunteering for room and board. It’ll be fine!”

It was not fine. Not at all.

At first, their social media was full of pictures from nice hotels and fancy restaurants.

“Living the dream!” they’d caption every post.

But within two months, those posts started to dwindle.

The last one I saw was a grainy shot of them camping in some field, with a caption about “embracing the simple life.”

Then, radio silence for a few weeks. I thought they were just busy enjoying their travels, unaware of what was really happening behind the scenes.

One day, I came home from work, exhausted after a long day of meetings and deadlines. All I wanted was to kick off my shoes, pour a glass of wine, and binge-watch some trashy reality TV.

But as soon as I opened my front door, I knew something was off.

There were shoes I didn’t recognize in the entryway, kid-sized backpacks on the floor, and familiar voices coming from my living room.

I walked in, and there they were.

Holly, Nicholas, and their two kids. They were unpacking suitcases and boxes in MY living room.

“Holly?” I blurted out, squinting my eyes as I looked at the mess in my living room. “What… what are you doing here?”

“Oh, hi Phoebe!” Holly chirped. “Surprise! We’re back!”

“Back?” I repeated. “In my house?”

Then, Nicholas stepped forward, smiling like this was the most normal thing in the world.

“Yeah, we decided to cut the trip short,” he said. “Turns out, full-time travel with kids is harder than we thought!”

“And Mom gave us your spare key… the one you gave her for emergencies,” Holly added. “I knew you wouldn’t mind us crashing here for a bit while we figure things out. It’ll only be for a few months.”

“A few months?” I protested. “Holly, are you serious? You can’t just move into my house without asking me!”

“But… we’re family. I thought you’d be happy to help us out.”

“Happy?” I could feel my cheeks burning with anger. “Holly, this is my house. My space. You should’ve talked to me about this!”

“Now, now, Phoebe,” Nicholas interrupted. “Let’s not get too high and mighty here. Family helps family, right? It’s not like you’re using all this space anyway.”

I couldn’t believe what I was hearing. Where did this entitlement come from? Why were they acting like what they did was fine?

“You guys need to leave,” I said, crossing my arms on my chest. “Now.”

But Holly refused.

Meanwhile, Nicholas started subtly threatening me.

“Come on, Phoebe,” he began, looming over me. “Don’t make this difficult. We don’t have anywhere else to go.”

I was furious. If I called the cops, their young kids might get dragged into it, and I didn’t want that.

I needed to come up with a plan, so I headed straight to my bedroom and locked the door behind me.

At that point, I honestly felt like crying. I had no idea what to do until my phone buzzed. It was a text from my old college friend, Alex.

Hey Pheebs! In your area for work. Drinks tonight?

Alex was always the prankster in our friend group, always coming up with wild schemes. If anyone could help me out of this mess, it was him.

I quickly texted him back.

Actually, can you come over? I have a situation and could use your help. Bring your acting skills.

The doorbell rang an hour later, and I raced to answer it before Holly or Nicholas could. When I opened the door, I saw a police officer standing at my doorstep.

“Oh my God, Alex!” I looked at him with wide eyes. “You’re wearing the perfect costume!”

I quickly stepped outside and closed the door behind me.

“What happened, Pheebs?” he asked.

“I need your help getting rid of my relatives,” I told him, still fascinated by his fake police uniform. “They’ve completely taken over my house.”

I quickly explained the situation, and Alex agreed to help. Then, I opened the door and called out to Holly and Nicholas.

“Holly, Nicholas, can you come here please? There’s a police officer who needs to speak with us.”

They were smiling when they came into the hallway, but their expressions immediately changed when they saw Alex in his uniform.

“Good evening,” Alex said. “I’m Officer Johnson. We’ve received reports of a break-in at this address. Can you tell me what’s going on here?”

Nicholas looked at me, squinting his eyes. Then, he puffed up his chest and slowly walked toward Alex.

“There’s no break-in here, officer,” Nicholas said in a serious tone. “We’re family. Everything’s fine.”

“Officer, these people entered my home unlawfully,” I said. “I never gave them permission to be here.”

Alex nodded and then looked at Holly and Nicholas.

“How did you gain entry to this residence?” Alex asked.

“We, uh, we used a key,” Holly stammered. “Mom gave it to me. It was a, uh, spare key for emergencies.”

“But no one asked my permission,” I intervened. “So, technically, you broke in. Who knows what might be missing?”

“I see,” Alex said, looking around the house. “And when the homeowner asked you to leave, did you comply?”

“Now, hold on a minute,” Nicholas said, his voice trembling slightly. “We did—”

“I’m afraid I’m going to have to ask you to leave the premises immediately,” Alex cut him off, pulling out a pair of handcuffs. “Failure to do so could result in charges of breaking and entering, as well as trespassing.”

I wanted to laugh so hard watching Nicholas pretending to be a police officer. He was just amazing. His last sentence was enough to send Holly and Nicholas into a panic.

“We’re sorry…” Holly began. “We’ll pack up.”

They quickly began throwing their things into their bags.

“If you leave right now,” Alex said sternly, “I won’t file charges. But you’ll return the key and never trespass again.”

They didn’t need to be told twice. Alex and I watched in silence as they grabbed their kids and their bags and bolted out of the house.

I finally laughed once their car sped away.

“You’re a lifesaver, Alex,” I said, shaking my head in disbelief. “Coffee?”

“Sure!” he said as he walked in and closed the door behind him.

I quickly made two cups of coffee before we sat in my now-quiet living room.

“I can’t believe they just assumed they could live here,” Alex said, shaking his head.

“I know,” I sighed. “Part of me feels guilty, you know? They’re family, after all. But I just couldn’t let them freeload off me like that.”

“You did the right thing, Phoebe,” Alex reassured me. “They can’t just take advantage of you because their hare-brained scheme failed.”

“I’m so glad you messaged me at the right time, Alex,” I said, looking at my phone. “I don’t know what I’d have done without you. But why did you come dressed up like a police officer?”

“Oh, that,” Alex chuckled. “I was just messing around with friends, pulling pranks and all. I had no idea my costume would come in handy over here. What a coincidence, right?”

“Yeah,” I nodded. “What a coincidence.”

As we talked, I couldn’t help but think of the consequences of my actions. Had I done the right thing? Would this drive an irreparable wedge between me and my sister?

But then I looked around my living room. It was my space, and I had worked so hard for it. I thought about all the long hours and the sacrifices I’d made to buy a house and realized I couldn’t let Holly and Nicholas just take over everything.

I also realized it was okay to put myself first. It was okay to stand up for myself and not let people walk all over me.

What would you have done if you were in my shoes?

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