Phoebe Cates starred in many movies, such as “Gremlins” and “Drop Dead Fred,” but she is best known for her famous pool scene in “Fast Times at Ridgemont High” from 1982.
However, Phoebe Cates left Hollywood more than 20 years ago. Nowadays, she has a regular job that she really enjoys.
Phoebe Belle Cates was born on July 16, 1963, in New York City. When she was a young girl, she went to private schools and studied ballet at Juilliard.
Acting was a big part of Phoebe’s family. Her father, Joe Cates, was a producer and director, her uncle was the president of the Director’s Guild, her brother used to be an actor, and her sister, Valerie, worked in theater.
Phoebe wanted to be a dancer when she was younger, but she had to stop after a knee injury.
At 14, Phoebe Cates started modeling and did pretty well. She was even on the cover of Seventeen magazine four times. But she didn’t really enjoy it and wanted to try something new.
“It was just the same thing, over and over. After a while, I did it solely for the money,” Phoebe said about her short modeling career.
One night, at a party at New York’s famous Studio 54, she met her film agent. After that, she trained with Robert Ravan, who founded The Actors’ Circle in New York.
“I just knew that I didn’t want to go to college. I thought if I could get a few movie roles, it would be a great way to avoid college. Seriously, it’s true,” Phoebe told The Daily Item in 1985.
Phoebe also trained with Alice Spivack at the H.B. Studios. She made her acting debut in 1982, playing Sarah in “Paradise.” Less than a year later, she starred in “Experienced” and then “Fast Times at Ridgemont High,” which featured the famous swimming pool scene.
“Fast Times at Ridgemont High” was a big hit with teenagers and became an important part of pop culture. It’s especially famous for one scene that Rolling Stone magazine called “the most memorable bikini-drop in cinema history.”
As a friend of mine said, that scene made a lot of teenage boys’ hearts beat faster than they should have!
In 1982, Phoebe shared her thoughts on acting. “In this business, if a girl wants a career, she has to be willing to strip. If you’ve got a good body, then why not show it?” she said.
“Fast Times at Ridgemont High” had an impressive cast, including future stars like Sean Penn, Jennifer Jason Leigh, Eric Stoltz, and Forest Whitaker.
Jennifer Jason Leigh reflected on the film, saying, “Well, it was a funny thing because we were all so young when we made it. Then it came out and was this big hit. You’d go to the theater, and people would say the lines along with it. People had obviously seen the movie over and over again,” she told The Daily News.
Later on, Phoebe continued working in theater and starred in “Private School” as Christine Ramsey in 1983. She also co-starred in Steven Spielberg’s “Gremlins” in 1984.
Phoebe met Kevin Kline, a well-known theater actor, while auditioning for the 1983 film “The Big Chill.” Although she didn’t get the role, she did meet her future husband.
Kevin was 16 years older than Phoebe, but they didn’t start dating until two years after they first met. Kevin hired Phoebe’s former assistant and asked for help to ask Phoebe out.
In 1989, Phoebe Cates and Kevin Kline got married in New York City when she was 25 and he was 41. They had their first child, Owen Joseph, in 1991 and their daughter, Greta Simone, in 1994.
By 2017, the couple had been married for 27 years, and many people wondered how they stayed so happy together for so long. “We take care of the marriage,” Kline said.
Although Phoebe was successful, she decided to step away from acting after having their children. In the 1990s, she gradually left the entertainment industry.
In 1998, Phoebe told Playboy that she and her husband had agreed to alternate their acting jobs so that their children would always have one parent at home.
Kevin Kline mentioned that even when it was Phoebe Cates’ turn to work, she often chose to stay home with their children. Although she did some acting occasionally, she was more often seen with her husband at red-carpet events, as he continued acting regularly.
In 2005, Phoebe opened a store called Blue Tree near Carnegie Hall. The store sells fragrances, clothing, and gifts.
Phoebe dedicated herself to running the store full-time, often working there personally or searching for new products to sell. Today, you can visit her store at 1283 Madison Avenue in New York City, located on Manhattan’s Upper East Side, where she also lives.
And just so you know, Phoebe still looks amazing!
What do you think of when you hear Phoebe Cates’ name? I always thought she was a pretty good actress, but the first things that come to mind are her shower scene in the cave in “Paradise” and the bikini scene in “Fast Times at Ridgemont High.”
I Came Home to Find My Kids Outside with Packed Bags — It Was the Hardest Day of My Life
I came home to find my children sitting on the porch, suitcases packed and confusion in their eyes. They said I told them to leave — but I hadn’t. As my heart raced and panic set in, a car pulled into the driveway, and when I saw who was behind the wheel, I knew things were about to get worse.
As I pulled into the driveway, my heart skipped a beat. There were my kids, sitting on the front steps with their suitcases beside them. My stomach churned. We had no trip planned. Why were my babies waiting with packed bags?
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I jumped out of the car, slamming the door behind me.
“What’s going on?” I called out, rushing over to them.
My son, Jake, looked up at me, confused. He was only ten, but in that moment, he seemed so small, so unsure.
“You told us to,” he said quietly.
“Told you to what?” I asked, my voice sharp. I knelt in front of them, my hands shaking. “Why are you out here with your things?”
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“You texted us,” he continued, glancing at his little sister, Emily, who was clutching her stuffed rabbit. “You told us to pack our bags and wait outside. You said Dad was coming to get us.”
I froze. My brain raced. “What? No, I didn’t!” I said, my voice rising. “I would never—let me see your phone.”
Jake hesitated, then pulled it from his pocket and handed it to me. I scrolled through the messages, my blood running cold as I read:
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“This is your mom. Pack your stuff, take the cash I left, and wait for Dad. He’ll be there soon.”
The words blurred in front of me. I hadn’t sent that. I hadn’t told them to do any of this. My heart pounded, and I felt a wave of nausea. I couldn’t believe what I was seeing.
“Mom?” Emily’s soft voice broke through my panic. I looked at her, her wide blue eyes searching mine. “Are we going with Dad?”
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“No, sweetheart,” I said quickly. “You’re not going anywhere.”
I stood up, gripping Jake’s phone in my hand, trying to figure out what to do next. And then I heard it—a car pulling into the driveway. My blood turned to ice. Slowly, I turned around.
It was him.
“Kids,” I said, my voice low and firm. “Go inside. Now.”
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Jake and Emily scrambled to their feet, grabbing their bags, but they hesitated at the door. I didn’t have time to reassure them, not with Lewis, my ex-husband stepping out of his car with that smug, self-satisfied look on his face.
“Well, isn’t this cozy?” he sneered. “Leaving the kids alone like this. Really great parenting.”
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“Are you serious?” I snapped, stepping toward him. My whole body was trembling, but I refused to back down. “What did you think you were doing, telling them to pack up and wait for you? You have no right to be here.”
He crossed his arms, casually leaning against his car, as if he hadn’t just tried to steal my children. “They shouldn’t have been left alone, if you were being a responsible mother.”
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“They were alone for two hours! I had a babysitter lined up, but she canceled at the last minute. I had no other options. It’s not like I’m leaving them out here in the dark!” I was trying to stay calm, but every word he said made my blood boil.
He shrugged, completely unmoved. “Sounds like an excuse to me. Maybe if you can’t handle this, you should let them stay with me.”
I stared at him in disbelief. “You lost custody for a reason, remember?”
He smirked. “Maybe that was a mistake.”
Before I could respond, the door creaked open behind me. Jake and Emily stood there, wide-eyed and scared, their little faces streaked with tears.
“Stop fighting!” Jake cried, his voice trembling. “Please, Mom. Please, Dad. Stop.”
Emily was crying now too, clutching her stuffed rabbit tighter, her small shoulders shaking.
Seeing that no one was leaving with him, Lewis got back into his car and left.
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As I watched my children stand there, tears running down their faces, something shifted inside me. Outwardly, I stayed firm, not letting my ex see how much this was tearing me apart. But deep down, I felt the weight of the situation.
This wasn’t going to end with today’s confrontation. No matter what I said or did, he would keep trying to manipulate them. He’d look for every opening, every weak spot, and use it against me.
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As I pulled my kids into my arms, I made a silent promise. I would protect them, no matter what. I wasn’t going to let him mess with their heads or make them think he was the hero in all of this. I had to think ahead. I had to be smarter than him.
I had heard bits and pieces about his new girlfriend. Her name was Lisa, and from what I could gather, she thought I was “crazy,” just like he had told her. He’d spun a whole story about me — how I was manipulative, obsessed, and unreasonable.
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She believed every word, because why wouldn’t she? He had always been good at playing the victim, painting himself as the perfect father who had been wronged.
But now I had proof. I had the fake texts, the custody ruling, and years of his manipulative behavior all laid out in front of me. This wasn’t about revenge in the traditional sense. I didn’t want to hurt him for the sake of hurting him. I just wanted the truth to come out.
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I combed through old messages, gathering any evidence I could find of his past manipulations. This wasn’t about exaggerating or twisting the truth. I wanted to present the facts, plain and simple. Let them speak for themselves.
Once I had everything, I reached out to Lisa. I didn’t want to confront her angrily. That wouldn’t work. I knew how carefully he had crafted his story, and I didn’t want to come off as the “crazy ex-wife” he’d warned her about. Instead, I asked if we could talk, calmly, in private. To my surprise, she agreed.
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When we sat down together, I could see the hesitation in her eyes. She was guarded, probably thinking I was about to yell or accuse her of something. But I didn’t. I took a deep breath and laid everything out in front of her.
“Look,” I said gently, sliding the phone across the table with the screenshots open. “I know what he’s told you about me. But this… this is the truth.”
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She glanced at the screen, her eyes widening as she read through the fake texts. I could see the confusion start to creep in as I handed her the legal documents next. She read them slowly, her expression hardening.
“I’m not here to tell you what to do,” I said. “I’m not asking you to leave him. But I thought you should know who he really is. He’s been lying to you, just like he lied to me.”
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I watched her reaction closely. At first, she tried to defend him. “He said you were difficult. That you made things impossible…”
“I’m sure that’s what he told you,” I said, keeping my voice calm. “But these are the facts. He’s been trying to take the kids from me, and he’s using them to hurt me. You don’t have to believe me. Just look at the evidence.”
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Lisa didn’t say much after that. I could tell she was processing everything, her mind turning over the things she had once believed about him. I didn’t need to push. I didn’t need to demand anything. The truth was already working its way into her thoughts, pulling apart the lies he had told her.
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A few weeks later, I heard from a mutual friend that their relationship was starting to fall apart. Lisa had started questioning him about everything. She didn’t trust him the way she used to, and that doubt spread through their relationship like a poison. Small cracks were turning into big ones, and their bond was unraveling.
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I didn’t have to do anything else. The truth was enough. He had spent months weaving a web of lies, and now, bit by bit, it was falling apart. I didn’t get the kind of revenge that leaves someone in tears or ruins their life. But I did get justice. And for me, that was enough.
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