Weddings are some of the most beautiful celebrations one can experience in their life (usually). The deep connection between two lovers taking physical form in a ceremonious act for all to see is one that a lot of couples look forward to.
However, it also comes with months upon months of planning, stress, and even more planning. The one thing that a bride cannot go without—the special dress. Whether it be white, maroon, black, fluffy, frilly, or form-fitting, it must make the wearer feel likе the most beautiful woman in the whole entire world.
Some brides take the plunge of crafting their own dresses, be it for the challenge, for the love of the craft, or both. Today we delve into the story of Veronika Lindberg Heino, or Kika, who knitted her special gown for her big day in 6 weeks. She was kind enough to answer some of Bored Panda’s questions so let’s get into it!
Veronika Lindberg Heino, better known by her nickname Kika, decided to take up the challenge of knitting her own stunning wedding dress
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If you were given 2.5 kg of yarn and 250 hours, what would you create? Mayhaps a blanket, mayhaps a 3D portrait, or maybe a knitted wedding dress. Seeing as you clicked on this article for a very particular reason, you probably know by now that we’ll be speaking about the last option.
Opening herself to the challenge was Veronika Lindberg Heino, better known by her nickname Kika, who documented the birth of her special white dress, sharing the ups and downs with her followers on Instagram (which she started in 2017) and YouTube.
This project came about when she and her husband-to-be were both moving house and planning an impromptu wedding, making for a very stressful 7 weeks
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For what was already an intense project, life decided to add an extra bit of *spice*: they were moving house and planning their wedding, happening 7 weeks later, at the same time, so why not add in a project of great significance on top of it all? Unless you’re as skiIIed as Kika, I wouldn’t recommend it!
“I do love a challenge and I’m often a little bit over-ambitious, and the thought felt so wild and inspiring that I just decided to take the risk and do it,” the Finland-based knitter told Good Morning America (GMA). “I ordered 2.5 kg of pure silk yarn and announced my crazy plan on Instagram, and knew right then, there was no turning back anymore.”
She ordered 2.5 kg of pure silk yarn and announced her plans to her followers on Instagram, getting the project officially started with no way to turn back
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Kika based her design around Dior, Chanel, and Ulla Johnson’s dresses. She then sketched and planned the patterns. After all that, the knitting began!
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Nothing worth doing ever comes easy. It was a struggle finding time to knit in between moving, planning the wedding, and publishing her first book
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Instead of throwing Kika off balance, this added project seemed to have the opposite effect: it kept her grounded through the tumultuous time, at least for a while. Nothing worth doing comes easy, and this project was no exception, especially as she’d never knitted a dress before.
“The process was definitely intense, and the biggest struggle was to find enough time for knitting since we were in the process of moving and organizing the wedding at the same time,” said Kika. “Plus I published my first-ever knitting book, so it was definitely hectic. But, I also enjoyed it immensely and loved seeing my vision come to life in the process.”
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Then a big setback occured—her bodice was far too big, requiring her to rip it all up and start again. Her sleeves then kept slipping off, which took lots of time to fix
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Glaring issues started appearing about two weeks in when Kika had finished the bodice and tried it on for the first time—it was way too big. Disappointed, but not defeated, the bride-to-be ripped it all up, starting all over again, describing it as “a tough and frustrating moment where some tears were shed.”
One more issue came along with the slippy sleeves that kept on slipping, revealing a tad bit too much, which Kika found hilarious yet time-consuming to fix. “I made sure to film all my mistakes so I could be real and honest with my viewers, rather than only showing them the picture-perfect moments,” she told Insider.
Not having any other option (you typically can’t just go and buy a dress off the rack, as those require alterations, which take a long time), she kept moving forward until it was one week til the wedding. Encouraging messages from her followers kept her spirits up, the promise she’d made to the project at the very beginning providing her with a sense of accountability.
However, “the biggest motivator was definitely seeing for myself if I could pull my idea and vision off, and the thought of having the dress as a memory for life really kept me going, too.”
But all that didn’t deter her! Just 4 days before the big day, the dress was finished and Kika got to have a well-deserved rest
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Everything was done. She finished her dress on Tuesday, feeling more tired and frustrated than elated, but once she put it on for the ceremony, she couldn’t have been happier with the end result.
Kika got married to her husband Jukka Heino on Saturday, September 10, at their new home (which inspired the cottage-themed wedding tone), just 4 days after she’d finished her dress. Although her partner was a bit more skeptical about her last-minute knitting project, “in the end, he was super impressed and proud of me, and thought it looked really good too,” Kika said.
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Kika told Bored Panda that they’d met back in Spring of 2020, when she moved back home to Finland from London, as the pandemic put the world in lockdown. “Just a few months after moving back I met Juki and for our first date we walked around in Helsinki for hours since all cafés and bars were closed due to the restrictions,” she said.
“I was immediately drawn to his humor and often colorful stories of his adventures which made me laugh, and of course I found him really handsome. I think he was drawn to my enthusiasm, something we both have in common and my positive attitude towards life.”
She married Jukka Heino on Saturday, September 10, at their new home. Everyone loved her dress, praising her for all the effort she’d put into it
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“Over the course of the day, guests would come up to me and immediately feel the dress and comment on it. It sometimes felt likе they were more interested in the dress than in me, but I love talking about knitting, so I didn’t mind too much,” she told Insider.
The entire process demanded around 45 days, roughly 250 hours, and 1.5 kg of pure silk yarn, costing 300 euros, or around $295, which is a bargain when it comes to wedding dresses, which go for $1,800 on average. Her 149k followers on Instagram absolutely loved the journey, jumping in with suggestions and support any time she needed it.
The entire process demanded around 45 days, roughly 250 hours, and 1.5 kg of pure silk yarn, costing 300 euros, or around $295
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The 46-minute vlog of the whole journey posted on YouTube has garnered over 3.4M views, quickly becoming the highlight of her channel, which has over 253k subscribers that look forward to her knitting tutorials. “I’m absolutely amazed by all the positive attention the video and my dress has gotten, wow!” said Kika.
“I’ve received messages from people all over the world telling me I’ve inspired them to take up knitting again or to learn it, which makes me so glad. I’m also proud that I’ve maybe been able to push the boundaries and show what is possible using knitting.”
According to Kika, “knitting was actually done primarily by men at some point in history, so the fact that knitting nowadays is associated with something mostly feminine hasn’t always been the case.” Knitting is not just for grandmas, y’all!
The 46-minute vlog of the entire process garnered over 3.4M views on YouTube, inspiring hundreds of people to take up or go back to the craft
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What began as a bonding activity with her grandma when she was 5 years old has become a lifestyle, bringing together likе-minded people from all over the world. The one lesson she’d always kept was to be playful with the craft, rather than searching for perfection.
“With knitting there are a lot of ‘rules’ or principles that come with the territory which sometimes can make it feel likе you’re not doing things the right way,” she told Bored Panda. “My grandmother always encouraged me to make things without getting hung up on perfection, being creative and playful was more important.”
She hopes her followers and those who jumped on the bandwagon to see the final dress get inspired to embrace creative projects they might feel tempted to try—“even if it might feel a bit ambitious, I say go for it!”
We wish Kika and Jukka all the best for their future together and can’t wait to see what’s coming up for them next!
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A post-pandemic resurgence of knitting is a very welcome sight for many who are getting into arts and crafts for the first time or returning back to the familiar time-passing activity. Recent research shows that knitting has a measurable effect on calming anxiety, relieving stress, and aiding with chronic pain, as well as helping one build a community of friends. And you end up with a cute hat and mittens in the meantime!
“I think knitting as a craft teaches you a lot about patience and really makes you think about what kind of garments you most likе to wear,” Kika said. “When you’re going to spend 40-60 hours making a sweater, you really want to make sure it’s something that is going to stay in your wardrobe for a long time, which makes knitting a very sustainable practice, too.”
Honestly, what’s not to love!? We wish Kika and Jukka all the best for their future together and hope to see many more exciting knitting projects! Let us know your thoughts on the dress in the comments below, and I shall see you in the next one!
People have absolutely loved this project and the final dress. Let us know your thoughts in the comments below!
My Neighbor Totally Ruined My Windows with Paint after I Refused to Pay $2,000 for Her Dog’s Treatment
When Julia refuses to pay $2000 for a minor injury to her neighbor’s dog, it sparks an escalating feud. As tensions rise, Julia must navigate the chaos while dealing with family struggles. But after her neighbor splatters paint over Julia’s windows, she snaps and plots some dastardly revenge.
Let me tell you about the time I almost lost my mind living in what was supposed to be a peaceful suburban neighborhood.
My name is Julia, and for over a decade, I lived in this cozy little house with my husband Roger, and our ten-year-old son, Dean.
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Life was pretty good, if you ignored the constant worry about Roger’s health. But everything changed when Linda moved in next door.
Linda. Just thinking about her makes my blood boil. She moved in with her golden retriever, Max, and from day one, we never saw eye to eye.
It wasn’t anything major at first, just little things like her loud music or the way she’d let Max wander wherever he pleased. But one sunny afternoon, things took a turn for the worse.
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I was in my backyard, pruning my roses, when Max came trotting over, wagging his tail like he owned the place. Sweet dog, really, but curious. He sniffed around and before I knew it, he let out a yelp.
Poor thing had gotten a tiny thorn in his paw. I knelt, soothed him, and gently removed the thorn. Max licked my hand, and I gave him a pat on the head.
I walked him back to Linda’s, expecting maybe a thank you. Instead, she stood there with her arms crossed and a scowl on her face.
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“Why is my dog limping? What did you do?” she snapped.
“He just stepped on a little thorn,” I replied, trying to keep my cool. “I took it out, and he’s fine.”
She huffed, and I thought that was the end of it. Boy, was I wrong!
I stormed over to Julia’s house, my blood boiling. I pounded on her door, holding up the incriminating evidence.
The next morning, I found a note stuck to my door. It read, “You owe me $2000 for Max’s treatment.”
I stared at it, dumbfounded. Two thousand dollars? For what? The dog had a minor scratch, nothing more. I decided to go over and clear things up.
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“Linda, what’s this about?” I asked, holding up the note.
“That’s for Max’s vet bill,” she said, her tone icy. “He was in pain all night because of that thorn.”
“I’m sorry, but that’s ridiculous,” I replied. “I’ll give you a hundred dollars as a goodwill gesture, but two thousand is out of the question.”
Linda’s eyes narrowed. “Either you pay up, or you’ll regret it.”
From that day on, Linda made my life a living hell.
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She’d knock over my garbage cans, honk and flip me off whenever she drove by. The worst was when she tried to get Dean arrested. My sweet, innocent Dean, who was just riding a mini bike like all the other neighborhood kids.
One afternoon, I was sitting on the porch, sipping some tea, when I heard the familiar sound of Linda’s car horn blaring. I looked up to see her glaring at Dean, who was playing in the driveway.
“Get that brat off that bike before I call the cops!” she screamed.
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“Linda, they’re just kids!” I shouted back, feeling my patience wear thin.
“Your kid’s a menace,” she retorted, “and if you don’t do something about it, I will.”
I wanted to scream, to cry, to do something, but I couldn’t. Roger was in the hospital again, and I was already stretched thin, trying to keep everything together. I took a deep breath and turned to Dean.
“Come inside, honey,” I said gently. “We’ll play something else.”
“But Mom, I didn’t do anything wrong,” Dean protested, tears welling up in his eyes.
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“I know, sweetie. It’s just… complicated.”
I tried to ignore Linda’s antics, focusing on Roger and Dean. But it was like living next to a ticking time bomb. Every day, I dreaded what she’d do next. And then she finally pushed me over the edge.
It was a Sunday afternoon when I got the call. Roger’s condition had taken a turn for the worse, and I needed to get to the hospital immediately.
I packed up our things, dropped Dean at my mom’s place, and rushed to the hospital.
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For two agonizing days, I stayed by Roger’s side, barely eating or sleeping, my mind a whirlwind of fear and exhaustion.
When I finally came home, I was hoping for a brief respite, a moment to gather my strength.
Instead, I walked up my driveway to find my house transformed into a graffiti artist’s nightmare. Red and yellow paint splattered across my windows, running down in messy streaks.
It looked like someone had tried to turn my home into a circus tent. And there, right on the doorstep, was a note from Linda: “Just to make your days brighter!”
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I stood there, trembling with rage, the exhaustion of the past two days evaporating in the heat of my anger. This was it. This was the breaking point.
“Dean, go inside,” I said through gritted teeth.
“But Mom, what happened?” he asked, his eyes wide with confusion and fear.
“Just go inside, honey,” I repeated, softer this time, trying to keep my voice steady.
Dean nodded and hurried inside, leaving me alone with my fury.
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I crumpled Linda’s note in my hand, my mind racing. Enough was enough. If Linda wanted a war, she was going to get one.
Before she could answer, a wail came from inside the house. I glanced past Julia and saw her son, Dean, sitting on the floor, tears streaming down his face.
That afternoon, I drove to the hardware store. I wandered the aisles, my anger giving way to a cold, calculating focus. I spotted the Japanese Beetle traps, and a plan began to form.
I bought several packs of the traps and the scent lures that attract the beetles. When I got home, I placed the scent packs in the freezer. The cold would make the wax easier to handle. My heart pounded with a mix of nerves and anticipation. This had to work.
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At three a.m., I crept into Linda’s yard, the neighborhood silent under the cover of darkness.
I felt like a character in one of those spy movies Roger loved so much. Every rustle of leaves, every distant sound made my heart leap. But I was determined. I buried the scent packs deep under the mulch in Linda’s meticulously maintained flower beds.
By the time I finished, the first light of dawn was starting to break.
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I slipped back into my house, my pulse finally starting to slow. I climbed into bed, exhausted but feeling a grim satisfaction. Now, it was a waiting game.
The next afternoon, I peeked out my window and saw them—swarms of Japanese beetles, glinting in the sunlight as they descended on Linda’s garden. It was working.
Over the next few days, her beautiful flower beds were decimated, the once vibrant blooms reduced to tattered remnants.
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Linda’s Perspective: Beetles, Blame, and a Change of Heart
Let me set the record straight. My name is Linda, and I moved into this neighborhood hoping for some peace and quiet.
That dream was shattered when my golden retriever, Max, wandered into Julia’s yard and got a thorn in his paw. Instead of just returning him, she acted like she was doing me a favor by pulling it out.
The next day, I asked Julia to cover Max’s vet bill.
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I mean, he was limping and in pain all night. But she had the nerve to offer me only $100 instead of the $2000 it cost. We argued, and I told her she’d regret not paying up. I didn’t expect things to get so out of hand.
Sure, I knocked over her garbage cans a few times and honked when I drove by—just to show her I wasn’t backing down. But Julia made me out to be the villain.
It wasn’t until my garden was destroyed by beetles that I realized things had gone too far.
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I was frantic, running around my yard like a mad woman. On the third day, I was pulling out dead flowers when I spotted something odd buried in the mulch. It was a piece of plastic packaging, and my heart sank as I realized what it was—part of a Japanese Beetle trap.
Someone had done this on purpose. And I had a pretty good idea who it was.
I stormed over to Julia’s house, my blood boiling. I pounded on her door, holding up the incriminating evidence.
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“Julia! Open up!” I shouted, my voice shaking with rage.
She opened the door, looking as calm as ever. “Linda, what’s going on?”
“What did you do to my garden?” I thrust the piece of plastic at her. “I found this in my flower bed. You did this, didn’t you?”
Julia’s face remained neutral, but there was a flicker of something in her eyes—guilt, maybe. “I don’t know what you’re talking about, Linda.”
“Don’t lie to me!” I screamed. “You ruined my garden! Why would you do this?”
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Before she could answer, a wail came from inside the house. I glanced past Julia and saw her son, Dean, sitting on the floor, tears streaming down his face.
“Mom, is Dad going to die?” Dean sobbed, his little voice breaking.
Julia turned away from me, her face softening as she went to her son. “No, honey, he’s going to be okay. The doctors are doing everything they can.”
I stood there, frozen, watching this scene unfold. Suddenly, my anger seemed so petty.
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Julia wasn’t just my annoying neighbor—she was a woman dealing with a sick husband and a scared child.
“Julia, I…” I started, but my words faltered. What could I say? I had been so consumed by my anger, that I hadn’t stopped to consider what she might be going through.
Julia looked back at me, exhaustion etched into her features. “I’m sorry about your garden, Linda. But I didn’t do it. I have enough to deal with without worrying about your flowers.”
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The fight drained out of me. “I’m sorry, too,” I said quietly. “I didn’t know things were this bad for you.”
She nodded, not saying anything. I backed away, feeling like an idiot. How had I let things get so out of hand?
After that, I kept to myself. I stopped the petty harassment, realizing that Julia had enough on her plate. My garden slowly recovered, and while Julia and I never became friends, we managed to coexist peacefully.
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Years later, I still think about that time. Sometimes, you need to look beyond your own troubles to see what others are going through. Julia and I have remained distant neighbors, but there’s a quiet understanding between us—a mutual respect born out of adversity.
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