Most adults know that being a grown-up isn’t as simple as it seems to a child.
Kids might see things like food in the fridge, a comfy home, and unlimited internet, but they often don’t understand the work it takes to have those things. One mom decided to teach her disrespectful son a funny, “real world” lesson to show him that “nothing comes for free.”
In 2015, Heidi Johnson was struggling with her defiant 13-year-old son, Aaron. She explained that Aaron “wanted the benefits of growing up without the responsibility that comes with it.”
Aaron had started making a little bit of money as a YouTuber and thought he didn’t have to follow his mom’s rules about doing his homework. He even stormed out of her room, saying he was a “free person” because he was “making money.”
In response to his behavior, the single mother wrote a “tough love” letter to Aaron and shared it on Facebook. Almost ten years later, her post has gone viral again.
Johnson’s note begins, “Since you seem to have forgotten that you’re only 13, and I’m the parent, and that you don’t want to be controlled, I guess you need a lesson in independence.” In what she called a “roommate contract,” she laid out the rules Aaron would need to follow if he wanted to act like an adult.
She continued, “Since you’re earning money now, it should be easier for you to pay back for everything I’ve bought for you.” Johnson added that if he wanted things like his lamp, lightbulbs, or access to the internet, he’d have to pay his part of the costs.
In her letter, Johnson listed the conditions Aaron would need to follow, including paying for rent and utilities. She also expected him to cook his own meals and help with regular cleaning around the house.
Johnson signed the letter, “Love, Mom.”
Taking Action
Living in Venice, Italy, Johnson shared that when Aaron saw the letter taped to his door, he crumpled it up, threw it on the floor, and stormed out of their apartment.
Johnson felt he just needed some time to think—and she used that time to start taking back some of the things from his room.
Once Aaron had time to think, he asked his mom what he could do to start re-earning his privileges. He even gathered more items from his room and handed them to her, asking how he could earn them back.
Johnson explained that this was never about making him pay her back; it was about teaching him to understand the cost of things. Aaron quickly realized he couldn’t afford rent, utilities, or food on his own.
Online commenters supported her approach, praising her for her creative discipline style. One person wrote, “Great job! Nothing in the agreement is harsh, but it will teach him a lesson he’ll remember.” Another said, “You’re an amazing mom for giving your son a chance to learn and grow.” A third comment added, “Bravo for being a parent and not just a maid.”
Some people accused her of publicly shaming her son. In response, Johnson wrote another post saying she was “not ashamed” of what she did.
“A teenager will push their limits,” she explained. “They’re in a stage where they’re stepping into adulthood but still rooted in childhood… I can’t send this child into college or the workforce with an attitude of ‘I’ll get to it when I feel like it’ when a boss asks him to get a job done. That’s how the real world works.”
Johnson ended by saying, “Nothing in life is free. Somewhere, someone is making a sacrifice.”
5 Ways to Tell if an Egg is Fresh or Rotten
When using eggs in recipes, have you ever felt dubious about their freshness? Because the white and yolk conditions of eggs are hidden by their shells, judging them can be challenging. Don’t worry, though; we’ll also provide some tips on how to cut down on egg-related food waste and provide you with some simple ways to tell if an egg is fresh.
The package of eggs you purchase from the grocery always includes a suggested use-by date. It may surprise you to learn that eggs cannot be sold in France seven days before to the minimum durability date specified on the packaging. When purchasing eggs straight from a henhouse, you should be aware that the use-by date is only a maximum of 28 days following the day of laying.
You can store eggs in the refrigerator for up to one month after the recommended use-by date, which is 58 days after they were laid, so don’t worry if the shells are not cracked or broken. Sufficient storage practices aid in preserving freshness, averting mold growth, and combating food waste. Do not forget to refrigerate your eggs to prevent any health hazards.
Eggs that have gone bad can smell weird, just like any other fresh product. Give an egg a whiff first if you wish to save it for later use and you see that its expiration date has passed. Eggs that have gone bad frequently smell bad and shouldn’t be consumed because they can have lost their vitamins and tasted different. Go ahead and promptly consume the egg by preparing an omelette, for example, if the fragrance seems natural to you.
You may also tell if an egg is still edible or has expired by using your eyes. Examine the shell thoroughly to minimize dangers. Mold may be present in the shell if it looks powdered, sticky, broken, or in any other dubious condition. Furthermore, in the event that the egg white or yolk exhibits any peculiar discoloration, such as blue, pink, black, or green, after being cracked into a bowl.
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