Each pregnancy alters your body irrevocably. And we don’t mean the stretch marks or the scars. We mean the forever-changed DNA. Ask any new mother and she’ll list out a litany of things that are now different for her. Like a forgetful mommy brain that, according to science, makes the mother-child bond stronger.
We at Bright Side salute all moms and believe that they are real-life superheroes. To honor all mothers, we found some mommy facts proving there’s nothing like a mother’s love. Or the science behind it.
1. Motherhood changes you, and your DNA.
A chimera is a legendary beast made of different animals. And we are likening mothers to chimeras because every child that a mother carries leaves their DNA inside her. Basically, fetal cells enter a mother’s bloodstream and stay in her body forever. Researchers allege that these cells can affect the mother both positively and negatively. On one hand, it can speed up healing but on the flip side, it can increase the risk of cancer.
So when they say motherhood changes you, it does so at an elemental level as well. Jennifer Garner’s stunning countenance reflects just that.
2. The baby can taste what their mother eats.
Studies show that what a mother eats flavors the amniotic fluid. Something a baby gulps down several times a day. Basically, a baby can taste what their mother eats from within the womb.
A study showed that infants whose mothers ate carrots while pregnant seemed to enjoy cereal prepared with carrot juice more than others. So if you want to develop your baby’s palate for healthy, crunchy veggies, chow down on them while you are pregnant.
3. Kissing babies is more “healing” than we think.
Any new mom will tell you that the urge to kiss a newborn is intense. It’s innate and biological in nature. And science says that when mothers kiss their babies, it’s not just love, it’s medicine.
A mother’s body samples the pathogens found on the baby’s face, and more magic happens within her own body. Especially to her breastmilk, the main source of nutrition and immunity for the baby.
4. Pregnant women make enormous amounts of estrogen.
Pregnancy sends a woman’s body into overdrive. The uterus expands to 500 times its normal size and then shrinks back after birth. The blood volume increases and to tackle that, the heart expands a little too.
And it’s not just this, a woman makes more estrogen in a single pregnancy than she would in her whole lifetime if she never got pregnant. There’s a reason why women are exhausted when expecting and need sleep and rest for a healthy delivery and recovery.
5. A mother’s smile is near magical.
Moms are near magic, and so is their smile or affection. While you need your mother at all ages, it’s the helpless infant who is most dependent on their mom.
Studies show that when mothers smile, coo, and show affection to their babies, their heartbeats synchronize into the same beat. So if a baby is distressed, it calms them down. This is the reason why newborns need mothers the most when they are fussy and refuse to be calmed down by other family members.
6. Carrying boys can make you more nauseous.
There’s a reason why little boys are made of “snips and snails and puppy dog tails” or so goes the nursery rhyme. This is because mothers who carry boys are more likely to be nauseous in the first and second trimesters, a study shows.
This is not to say that women expecting girls cannot have morning sickness or that all women who carry boys have more nausea. It’s just that if you are expecting a boy, chances are you may experience more nausea or food aversions.
7. Babies name their mamas.
“Mom, mama, mummy, mamma, ammi, ma, me, emi, mimi.” There’s a pattern in the name for mother in all languages and this is because the “em” sounds are usually the first vocalization for a baby. It’s also the easiest sound a baby can make while babbling. And so it’s our babies who name us and call us mamas.
8. The mommy brain fog is very real.
If you see new moms looking lost, there’s a scientific reason for this. Each pregnancy affects a woman’s brain and makes her lose gray matter. The effects last for around 2 years. Science says that this temporary bewilderment makes mothers closer to their babies as well.
That said, the gray matter regenerates and any confusion or forgetfulness is passing. The bond between a mother and her child is permanent.
9. A mother’s voice is as soothing as a hug.
A study has shown that a mother’s voice, even on the telephone, is as calming as a hug. Researchers introduced stress to a group of girls and then had 1/3 of them hug their mothers, another 1/3 of them talk to their mothers, and 1/3 watched an emotionally neutral film. The girls who spoke to their mothers calmed down much faster, just like those who hugged.
This proves that if you are under stress, your mother’s voice can flood oxytocin into your bloodstream, making you feel better. And we think Jennifer Garner already knows that, pictured here with her mother.
10. Babies can cry in the womb.
The baby’s first cry is not post-birth, rather studies now show that they can express displeasure inside the womb. This can happen as early as 28 weeks gestation.
Researchers played low-decibel sounds on the mother’s belly and could see that the baby opened their mouth and exhibited crying-like behavior. But it’s a silent cry. Researchers also added that this in-vitro crying was nothing the mother should worry about.
11. Pregnancies leave women vulnerable to tooth decay.
Pregnant women are at risk for tooth decay and there are many reasons why. The changes in diet due to cravings may give some women a sweet tooth and the hormones that cause nausea, meaning more acidity on your mouth, to mention a few. This leads to gum disease and decay.
A simple way to prevent it all is by making oral health a priority, especially when you are pregnant.
12. The earliest milk bottle use came to be 7,000 years ago.
As it turns out, the breast/bottle debate is prehistoric. And mamas back then were pretty innovative too. Researchers have found little clay vessels, some shaped into mythical animals with hands and feet, with milk residue in them.
The earliest of them date back to 7,000 years ago and have been identified as prehistoric feeding bottles for babies. The dairy residue has been identified as breastmilk and milk from a cow, sheep, or goat.
13. The Ice Age made human breast milk more nutritious.
Human beings need sunlight to survive because our bodies only synthesize vitamin D in the sun. Allegedly, the last Ice Age should have wiped us out because newborns were not getting any vitamin D, considering the intense cold and lack of sunshine.
Scientists believe that a genetic tweak happened and mothers could transmit vitamin D and essential fatty acids to their newborn babies, and this may have ensured human survival.
14. Pregnancies can be contagious.
A study of more than 30,000 women conducted in Germany has indicated that pregnancy is contagious. It spreads from woman to woman in workplaces, in an endearing way. The results stated that “in the year after a colleague gives birth, transition rates to first pregnancies double.”
So if you are in the workplace and someone is pregnant, expect more pregnancies to pop up.
15. Most mammal moms carry their babies on the left.
Human mothers and even some mammal mamas cradle their babies on the left side of their bodies, closer to their heart. This is irrespective of a left-handed or right-handed mom. Science says that all the sensory information that comes from the left side of the body is processed on the right side of the brain.
The right side is where all the emotions are. And surprisingly enough, babies prefer to keep their moms on their left side as well, so it works for both mom and babe.
Bonus: Celebrity moms speak about motherhood.
Rosie Huntington-Whiteley
“I did start to feel this new sense of life. And now my confidence is so much greater.”
Lauren Burnham Luyendyk
“Breastfeeding is one of the hardest things I’ve ever done. I’m in awe of the ladies that make it look so effortless, and even the ones who don’t, you are superheroes.”
Do you have any other experiences as a child or a mother that show us that moms are actual superhumans? Share your motherhood stories with us and spread the joy.
Please note: This article was updated in June 2022 to correct source material and factual inaccuracies.
Preview photo credit laurenluyendyk / Instagram
‘I Protest!’ My Wedding Was Stopped by My Mother-in-Law, but in the End, I Had to Thank Her for It – Story of the Day
I was sure he was the one. I imagined my wedding day a thousand times, picked my perfect dress, and chose all the decorations, food, and drinks. Successful in life, I could afford everything. But I never imagined my MIL would be the one to tell me the truth and save me from a huge mistake.
When I was little, I often imagined the day I would get married.
Growing up as an orphan in foster homes, it was hard to picture what my own family would look like. Sometimes, sitting by the window, I thought maybe I would never have a family.
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I wish I could go back and reassure little Penelope and tell her things would get better. I would have never believed back then that my own wedding would take place in such a beautiful setting.
A lot has changed since those days. I built a career from scratch and had everything I once lacked in my childhood.
For a long time, I couldn’t find that perfect prince I always dreamed of. But finally, I did, and the day of my wedding arrived.
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I sat in front of the mirror in my wedding dress, everything ready for the best day of my life.
The dress was a vision of white lace and satin, making me feel like a princess. Behind me sat Nellie, my best friend, fiddling nervously with the edge of her dress.
“I can’t believe it. I used to only dream of this day,” I said, my voice filled with wonder as I stared at my reflection.
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“Penelope! Why do you say that? You’re a beautiful woman. A wedding was only a matter of time for you,” Nellie said, trying to sound encouraging.
Her eyes, however, betrayed a hint of worry.
“I didn’t always think so… But Colin, he’s so wonderful. He loves me so much,” I replied, a dreamy smile spreading across my face.
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Nellie hesitated, her voice unsure. “Are you sure he’s the one? Have you ever had doubts?”
“What do you mean, Nellie? We’re getting married in a couple of hours and you’re asking me this? Of course, I’m sure! He’s the first who ever loved me,” I said, my tone a mix of surprise and irritation.
“Maybe he loves your success and money… That’s what I mean,” Nellie said softly, avoiding my gaze.
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“What!? No, he’s not like that,” I retorted, my heart beating faster with unease.
“Listen… I need to confess something…” Nellie started, her voice trembling.
“What is it?” I asked, my curiosity piqued, but my nerves frayed.
Just then, Colin’s father, Richard, peeked in. “Girls, hurry up, everything’s ready. Are you all set?” he asked, his booming voice breaking the tension.
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“Yes, almost,” Nellie replied quickly, standing up.
“Penelope, come out when you’re ready. Nellie, come with me, I need your help,” Richard instructed.
Nellie and Richard left, and I was alone again. I stared at my reflection, my thoughts a whirlwind.
What was Nellie going to say? Why now? She was acting very strange today. But I didn’t want these thoughts to ruin this day. The only thing that mattered was my wedding.
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Taking a deep breath, I tried to shake off the unease that had settled over me. I stood up, smoothed down my dress, and forced a smile.
This was supposed to be the happiest day of my life, and I was determined to make it so.
The ceremony began. The hall was filled with people, all dressed in their finest clothes. The air was thick with anticipation and the scent of fresh flowers. Richard, Colin’s father, walked me down the aisle since I had no parents. I clutched his arm tightly, trying to steady my nerves.
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There were barely any guests on my side, just Nellie, whom I didn’t see as I walked. Something felt off, but Richard hurried me to the altar, his grip firm and reassuring.
As we reached the altar, I saw Colin waiting for me with a smile that made my heart skip a beat.
All my doubts seemed to vanish when I looked into his blue eyes. He looked so handsome in his suit, and his smile was so genuine.
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Sensing my nerves, he took my hands in his, his touch warm and comforting.
“You look beautiful,” Colin whispered, his eyes shining with emotion.
“Thank you,” I whispered back, feeling a bit more at ease. “I’m so happy.”
The priest cleared his throat, signaling the start of the ceremony. I took a deep breath, ready to begin.
It was time for the vows, and I offered to go first. I had so much to say to Colin, to thank him for his kindness and love.
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“Colin,” I began, my voice steady despite my nerves. “From the moment we met, you have been my rock, my comfort, and my joy. I promise to love you, to support you, and to stand by your side for the rest of our lives.”
Colin smiled, squeezing my hands. Then it was his turn. His vows were short. It was as if he was rushing. He seemed eager to get through them quickly.
“Penelope, you are my everything. I love you and I promise to be with you always,” he said simply.
Finally, the priest said, “If anyone here objects to this union, speak now or forever hold your peace.”
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The room was silent. The priest was about to continue when suddenly, a voice shouted, “I protest!” It was my mother-in-law, Megan.
She stood in the middle of the hall, her face set with determination.
“I protest this marriage!” she repeated, her voice echoing through the hall.
Everyone was stunned. The guests turned to look at Megan, their faces a mix of shock and confusion.
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The priest paused the ceremony, and his brow furrowed in concern before he retreated to his office until we could resolve the issue.
The hall erupted in chaos. Guests were bewildered, their murmurs growing louder as they tried to understand what was happening.
Colin shouted at his mother, his face red with anger.
“Mom, what are you doing? This is insane!” he yelled, not letting her speak. Richard, looking equally furious, tried to forcibly remove her from the hall.
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“Get out, Megan! You’re ruining everything!” Richard demanded, grabbing her arm.
But I stepped forward, my voice firm. “Stop! Everyone, stop!” I said, raising my hands. “I want to hear what Megan has to say.”
The room fell silent, all eyes turning to me. Colin looked at me with a mixture of anger and desperation. “Penelope, you can’t be serious. She’s crazy!” he insisted.
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I ignored him and turned to Megan. “Please, go on,” I said quietly.
Megan took a deep breath, her eyes filled with determination. “Penelope, you’re making a mistake.
You need to stop this wedding before it’s too late. Colin doesn’t love you. He’s only after your money. That’s why he’s rushing this marriage,” she said, her voice trembling with urgency.
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Richard and Colin tried to silence her again. “Don’t believe her, darling. It’s all lies,” Colin pleaded, his eyes wide with panic.
It was hard to believe. My heart was pounding. What proof did she have? But why would she lie and embarrass herself in front of everyone? Could it be true?
There was no time to think. Megan had no evidence, and I wanted to trust Colin and accuse her of lying. But suddenly, Nellie burst into the hall, her face pale but resolute.
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“Wait!” Nellie shouted, supporting Megan. “Penelope, I need to tell you something.”
“What is it, Nellie?” I asked, my voice shaking.
“I wanted to tell you earlier, but Richard stopped me and forbade me from attending the wedding,” Nellie confessed, glancing at Richard.
“But I can’t stay silent while you’re being deceived. Colin has been cheating on you with me.
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Even after the bachelor party, he came to my place. He only cares about your money.”
The words hit me like a ton of bricks. I felt my knees go weak, and I had to steady myself on the altar. “Is this true, Colin?” I asked, my voice barely above a whisper.
Colin’s face turned ashen. “Penelope, it’s not what you think. I love you,” he stammered, but his eyes betrayed him.
I was in shock. Betrayal, anger, and heartbreak all washed over me at once. I listened to everyone, but their voices felt distant. I turned and fled the wedding, my heart shattered.
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How could I have believed such a man? And my best friend, nearly allowing me to make the biggest mistake of my life. I had no one left.
As I ran out of the hall, the only person who seemed to truly want to save me was Megan, my mother-in-law.
Her courage to stand up and speak the truth, despite the consequences, was the only thing that saved me from a lifetime of regret.
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Nearly a month passed since my wedding was called off. The days felt surreal, a blur of emotions and realizations.
I blocked Colin on everything; he tried to apologize and even stalked me for a while, but I didn’t want to see him.
Everything became painfully clear—he was only interested in my money. I still talked to Nellie, but our relationship was strained. I could never trust her like before. But when one door closes, another opens.
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The day I fled the wedding, a man named Tony saw me on the road. I was a mess, still in my wedding dress, tears streaming down my face. He pulled over, his concern evident. “Hey, are you okay? Do you need help?” he asked gently.
I looked at him, my vision blurred with tears. “I… I don’t know. I just need to get away,” I managed to say.
Tony nodded, offering a kind smile. “Hop in. I’ll take you somewhere safe.”
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I couldn’t refuse. He genuinely helped and supported me without knowing anything about my money or past.
He just wanted to help. Since then, we kept in touch, and he became bolder, asking me out. It was hard after Colin, but I decided to take a chance with Tony, and it paid off.
Sitting at dinner with him one evening, laughing genuinely, I realized that Megan screaming “I protest” had saved my life. Tony was kind, funny, and didn’t care about my status or wealth.
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He simply wanted to be with me for who I was. We talked about everything and nothing, sharing stories and dreams. For the first time in a long while, I felt truly happy and free.
As we finished dinner, Tony looked into my eyes and said, “Penelope, I’m glad I met you. I want to get to know you even more.”
“I feel the same way, Tony,” I replied, smiling. His sincerity was something I hadn’t experienced in a long time.
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Megan’s intervention, though shocking and painful, turned out to be a blessing in disguise. It steered me away from a disastrous marriage and toward a chance at real happiness.
Reflecting on everything, I felt grateful for Megan’s courage to speak out. She risked her relationship with her son to protect me. Now, I could finally look forward to a future filled with genuine love and trust.
One day, I decided to reach out to Megan to thank her for her bravery. We met for coffee and talked about everything that had happened. She was relieved that I understood her intentions.
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“Penelope, I only wanted what was best for you. I’m sorry it had to be so dramatic,” Megan said, sipping her coffee.
“I know, Megan. Thank you for looking out for me,” I replied, feeling a weight lift off my shoulders. The tension I had felt melted away as we shared a genuine moment of understanding.
From then on, Megan and I developed a close bond. She became the mother figure I had always longed for, and I was grateful for her presence in my life. She provided advice, support, and most importantly, love.
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As for Tony and me, we took things slow, savoring every moment together.
We built a relationship based on mutual respect and love, something I never thought possible after Colin.
We enjoyed simple pleasures—walks in the park, quiet dinners, and endless conversations.
Looking back, I realize that sometimes the most unexpected events can lead to the greatest blessings.
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